teethbrushes Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 My ex dumped me a while ago for several different reasons. It wasn't a cut and dry easy thing. We were each other's first loves. He had always said we might get back together should certain circumstances occur, but in the mean time he wanted to stay friends. Then when he started to date someone new, he said we would never get back together. They broke up 5 months or more ago. we were forced into contact when he decided to go to my small school 500 miles from our hometown. He was acting really, really awkward so i told him I didn't want him back several times. I even said I was really glad we broke up, because in a way I am. I thought maybe he was acting awkward because he thought I was hoping for a second chance and people say guys don't really get attatched the way girls do. So taking that in mind, I said I didn't want him back ever and not to worry. That's when he got weird. He still talks to me, but its weird...like really weird. I don't know if I want him back. I wanted to hang out with him to decide if I wanted him back or not, but he didn't seem to take to that after I said I was glad we broke up. Have i pushed him too far away by saying stuff like this? When he talks to other people, he acts like he's very upset about us and tells everyone we dated. But with me, he will act like it bothers him if we're not talking, but when we talk he acts like everything is fine. I even sent him a text about something funny and even though we had had phone interactions less than a month ago and it was OBVIOUS it was me, he called me and acted like he didn't know who the number was from (even though it was obvious and he didn't wait more than a minute to call)....weird.... I know people say "Since he dumped you if he wanted you back he'd tell you." but why would you even entertain the thought of that if this person has repeatedly said they didn't want to be with you?! When he said we would never date again, I officially cut contact for good and rebuffed any invitation of friendship. Link to post Share on other sites
Rocko Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 Stop worrying about him until you figure out what you want. Otherwise you will turn into him (the "confused" type). Also, why do you tell him you don't want him when you do? Sounds to me like you're trying to convince yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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