Happy Noodle Boy Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 Well, I'm been freakin out about this all week so please feel free to give some input on this. I'm having so much trouble figuring out what the right move would be. So ok, about a month ago I started talking to an old friend/ex-girlfriend. We've known each other for five years on and off and even though we dated for a short time we always saw each other as friends. I guess that's why it made it easy to keep in touch with her for so long. Well everything just changed as soon as we recently started hanging out again (after a year of not seeing each other). All those emotions we kept from each other came out overnight in an outburst of sex and romance. To me it was a bit shocking because I never imagined we'd be so intimate but I can say I've enjoyed every minute of it. Except there's one thing....... Six months ago I met a girl that was Everything I've ever wanted. Almost tempted to call her my dream girl instead my actual dream girl wouldn't F'n leave me! Anywho, I completely fell in love with her. We ended up getting extremely close but she ended up moving and her feelings changed soon after that. With that came the worst heartbreak I had ever experienced. Its been two months since I last talked to her and I've since moved on but not completely 100%...more like 90%. My situation is this.... The girl I've known for years basically put everything out on the table and told me "I want to have a serious relationship with you." I'm not saying that I want it to happen or expect it to but IF...IIFFF dream girl came back to me, I would probably jump ship and go back out with her again. I honestly don't want her to come back because I would run the risk of hurting the girl I'm involved with now. Should I move forward and start a serious relationship or step back because I'm not 100% over the other girl? Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted November 3, 2005 Share Posted November 3, 2005 I think you should probably just be honest (but tactful) with her. Let her know that you need some time to really get over this other girl before you can move forward with her in a committed relationship. Give yourself some time to get over it, because I promise that you will. It's not going to make you feel any better in the long run when you cause this girl misery because you don't know what you want. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Happy Noodle Boy Posted November 3, 2005 Author Share Posted November 3, 2005 Hi thank you for the reply. Yeah, it looks like I will have to do what's right here and just be honest. She knows about whom I was with before but she doesn’t know that I'm still trying to get over her. There's something so weird to me though about the two. It took us five years to finally be romantically and intimately close.......yet with miss 6months ago it took us like One day. It never felt weird that I had just met the girl and I was already crazy about her. Gawd daamit I'm still hurt from loosing her, sometimes I wish I could freeze time and stay with one person....anyway thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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