Kym Posted July 1, 2001 Share Posted July 1, 2001 Hi i need help. I am in love with two different guys and seeing both of them. i dont wanna hurt either of them. what can i do. i am 18, they are 19 and 28. Please Help!!!!!!1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 1, 2001 Share Posted July 1, 2001 Well, if you are the one in love then it's you that's going to get hurt. I am assuming by implication that they are in love with you as well. You need to come clean with both of them, let them know you are seeing another and in love them and with another. Do this as soon as possible. Yes, they are both likely to split. However, you are living a two-timing, miserable, deceitful existence right now. You can't possibly be in a healthy, loving relationship with anybody unless you are honest. You cannot keep up this charade forever. You have no choice but to flush this out. It won't work any other way. You cannot remain in relationships with both of these guys forever. There will be pain eventually and it will be worse with each day that passes. Resolve this as soon as possible. If you are honestly and truly in love with these guys, you want to let them know exactly what the drill is. They have a right to know just where they stand. Right now, you are making fools of both of them and, if you keep this up, one day they will deeply resent it and hate you for it. They will be pretty pissed unless you come clean with them as soon as possible. Just be kind and careful about how you break the news to them. You are very young and even if you end up losing both of these guys, you will probably fall in love with many others before you are ready to commit yourself to ONE, yes O-N-E special guy. By the way, anybody who would characterize themselves as being "stuck" in love, in my opinion, has not yet found true love. Link to post Share on other sites
Ashesmum Posted July 2, 2001 Share Posted July 2, 2001 You could either do like Tony says or figure out which one you want to be with. Pick the one you want and tell the other you are involved with someone else. Tell them you love this person and end it with him. That way you still have one (if he doesn't find out). Just make sure you pick the right one. Good luck. Hi i need help. I am in love with two different guys and seeing both of them. i dont wanna hurt either of them. what can i do. i am 18, they are 19 and 28. Please Help!!!!!!1 Link to post Share on other sites
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