San9ora Posted November 4, 2005 Share Posted November 4, 2005 Yesterday me and my freind had a fight... and she involved my other freind who i have feelings for, he started shouting at me... the thing is me and him well i told him i liked him and he said that it would be better if we kept it as freinds..so we did and then there was always my other freind...(z) well (z) and (d) the guy i have feelings for, have this fake relationship, they keep flirting and stuff.... no i'm not jealous!! okay okay i am... and so i always thought he valued her freindship more then mine, he does i know that, but anyway back on subject me and (z) had this big fight and she accused me of things... so she obviously told (d) and so he came in screaming the odds off at me saying he was tired of me and (z) fighting and that he was tired of us coming to him whenever me had an argumement all crying and stuff... *sigh* me and my freind (z) sorted it out but me and (d) havent i sent him emails and stuff he hasnt answered any...and i dont know what to do.... i've nearly lost his freindship before aswell..and now i'm here in that same spot again... i have no idea what im going to do, because whenever we say our freindship isnt going to work fate alwasy brings us together.... help..? Link to post Share on other sites
Liliana Posted November 9, 2005 Share Posted November 9, 2005 I think you really need to talk to (d) in person. If he's really upset with you that's the only way you'll get through. I wouldn't worry too much though. It's my guess that the strength of your friendship, and not fate, was what pulled you through the other times, and a true friendship won't break up on this basis. All friends fall out from time to time, and naturally, since there are a lot of strong feelings flying around in this particular case, of course you're going to get hurt more than usual. As to the situation in general, if he's really not interested in you as more than a friend, I think you still have some moving on to do. Feelings never really die and I know from experience that getting over unreturned or unrealizable ones is really hard (am kind of in that position right now...), though not impossible, but all the same... perhaps you could start looking around at other people? It might make your friendships with (z) and (d) a little less claustrophobic. Link to post Share on other sites
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