Author Cathy7 Posted February 16, 2023 Author Share Posted February 16, 2023 1 minute ago, basil67 said: Yes, it is disrespectful. See my clarification above Thank you so much! Well, my friend asked him if he would like to take care of himself and he said it's disrespectful to ask. Well, I think that in this case she should just leave. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 5 minutes ago, Cathy7 said: Thank you so much! Well, my friend asked him if he would like to take care of himself and he said it's disrespectful to ask. Well, I think that in this case she should just leave. Yes, he's made it clear that he's happy with who he is and does not appreciate being criticised. So if she doesn't like who he is, she needs to leave. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 17, 2023 Share Posted February 17, 2023 10 hours ago, Cathy7 said: Well, my friend asked him if he would like to take care of himself and he said it's disrespectful to ask. She'll have to come to her own conclusions. She's already discussed this with him and he had a my-way-or-the-highway response. There's no right or wrong here. Just incompatibilities and her venting to you. It's important not to take sides because she may stay with him. Then anything negative you say about him will backfire. Link to post Share on other sites
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