What to do continued!!!

[speedartist]

Posted as a reply sorry new to this...Thanks for the advice, I wrote things in the few e-mails to say how i felt and i wanted to help but wasn't pushy just offered,i did this one.. to see if she would be feeling pressured from me and i would get a reply to leave her alone. She replied and said she had to take care of her own messes(which is true) but avoided any romantic response to what i wrote, so I AM treading very lightly and not contacting her it's been over a week. I just need some objective prospective, i know she probaly hasn't told anyone she seen me or if she did or even told her counseler they might say are you nuts for contacting him...she made a point of showing me and telling me all the things going on in her life good and bad plus all the things she still had i had bought her when we were dating, but if she has all this bad stuff and health issues i'm the last thing on her mind right now???, i think keeping my distance which is hard is best right now, because when you get a call out of the blue after years you don't know what to think, but i hope i'm doing the right thing and letting her be. I don't think she would have contacted me after all these years on a whim or was just out of it and in a panic, at first she wanted me to do a couple of things with her and then changed her mind.. scared i guess, but was very polite about it, she wanted all my contact info. People this perplexing to me and i don't want to blow it, but i also worry she might be in harms way with this guy hurting her physically, but i cant interfer.