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I was dating a girl for about 2 months, within those two months we had a fight and i told her i couldn’t do this and broke it off. I regretted my decision and then we got back together but she was being flaky and not interested in me no more so she broke it off. After a few weeks went by i told her lets works things out told her its a bit silly that we are break it off for something dumb and not that serious.

After that she told me shes going to move to Texas, she told me if i pay her rent of 350 she’ll stay and be in a relationship with me again. Im like wtf. I told her to move into my apartment that i wont bother her and she can stay there for free. She refused.

She’s most likely using me at this point right?

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She's not using you or taking advantage of you in any way.

At least.. not yet.

You haven't said yes to paying the rent for her.

 

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1 hour ago, Flozfzx said:

I was dating a girl for about 2 months, within those two months we had a fight and i told her i couldn’t do this and broke it off

After that she told me shes going to move to Texas, she told me if i pay her rent of 350 she’ll stay and be in a relationship with me again. Im like wtf

Unfortunately the overall picture is one of drama and conflict. You may be better off cutting your losses. It's been 8 weeks of breakups, makeups and coercion. Free yourself for women who want to be with you.

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2 hours ago, Flozfzx said:

She’s most likely using me at this point right?

Yes she's definitely setting you up to be used.  There are a lot of gold diggers out there so be careful.

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I got distracted by the rent of $350. That’s very low rent.

Anyway, pass. Not a good one. Don’t move her in. It’s okay to find someone completely new (who also pays their own bills).

What was the fight about at the beginning?

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17 hours ago, Flozfzx said:

she told me if i pay her rent of 350 she’ll stay

So she will only stay for the rent money?

Hell no.

That money wont be for rent (note she refused to stay rent free).

Cut this one off OP, she sounds like a bad egg.

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