tsax Posted March 11, 2023 Share Posted March 11, 2023 (edited) I don't know how I miss her so much, since I started getting bitter toward the end. She was happy but I was having troubles without really saying anything, and then she left out of nowhere. I'm so [ ] hurt by it and I've been crying multiple times a day since she broke up with me 5 days ago. It hurts so bad, and I wish I didn't have to feel any of this. We spent so many holidays together for the past seven months, and she even made me a cake on my birthday which nobody has ever done. We lived very close to each other and everything was good for the first 5 months or so. I've always loved her so much but there came a time where my needs weren't being met, and I just felt like maybe I wanted to move on. When she left, I just immediately crumbled and didn't know how to handle it. Even though things weren't good in the end, I miss her so much. I know I'm just an addict, but it hurts. She gave me no reason for the breakup, and I've been in no contact for two days. Edited March 12, 2023 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted March 11, 2023 Share Posted March 11, 2023 (edited) 2 hours ago, tsax said: there came a time where my needs weren't being met, and I just felt like maybe I wanted to move on. Sorry this happened. What "needs weren't being met"? It seems like you broke up with her and regret it? You mentioned the last 2 months were strained, what went wrong? Edited March 11, 2023 by Wiseman2 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted March 12, 2023 Share Posted March 12, 2023 Yeah, breakups are really sucky. You said that by the end, your needs weren't getting met and you were bitter and were considering moving on. This is very likely related to the reasons she ended it. What needs weren't getting met? Why were you bitter and how did you show it? Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted March 15, 2023 Share Posted March 15, 2023 On 3/11/2023 at 5:56 PM, tsax said: She gave me no reason for the breakup You also gave her no reason for your bitterness toward the end. Your distance and change in mood is obviously what made her leave. You had no communication as a couple at all. If you have concerns in a relationship then you have to talk about them to each other. Link to post Share on other sites
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