What's she felling?

[Not_Over]

I was just sitting have a smoke ( thinking about her and Us)

 

I know this question is a little open ended but, I was wondering

 

How is my wife feeling?

 

She's staying at my mom's house now. ( with 2 kids, 6 and 4)

Hasn't done anything to move on. It's been been 6 weeks today.

 

I've asked her " How are you?" everytime we see eachother and

I get " Good." ( I would very much like to sit down with her and ask

"How do you feel?" but, at the same time I'm respecting that she needs her space .

 

What I'm in search for is a little insider info here.

Thanks.

[slubberdegullion]

Who knows? She probably is just as confused as you are. Regardless, you're not responsible for her feelings, only she is, just as she isn't responsible for yours, only you are.

 

Six weeks isn't very long, however. Whatever form of "moving on" takes for her may take many more months, depending on her state of mind and her financial situation.

[Art_Critic]

There is no insider info that is going to be the magic bullet that you can all of a sudden see things more clearly..

 

She has asked for space.. You seem to be giving it to her.. But remember that you have needs too..

 

I don't think anything good can come out of leaving things as they are in a marriage..

 

I'm of the sort that needs to be proactive.. I would suggest if you want your marriage to not head into divorce that you sit her down and get her into counseling... NOW

[Not_Over]

slubber,

 

I know, your right. I knew you where right when I started the thread.

I seem to be having one of those days of guilt. Thanks.

 

Art,

I asked her for counseling last Saturday night.

She thought about it for a minute and said

 

"If I come back now that would make me the worst mother ever."

 

Hmmm? Thas not what I asked for:p

I dropped it for now. Seems to me she has coming back on her mind a little to much. no?