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Should I give her space?


Corduroy

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2 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

She seems to be enjoying being single for a while and at the same time enjoying the attention while in-between relationships. As long as you can stay objective and not get hurt, it may be fine, but she's pretty clear about being on the rebound.

She is enjoying being single, again I just came into her life out of the blue. Yeah she does enjoy my attention, but I wonder if I take a step back, how are things going to be?

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6 minutes ago, Corduroy said:

 I wonder if I take a step back, how are things going to be?

Are you hoping this will make her chase you?

Because that is flawed thinking. If someone wants you only when you make yourself scarce, there is no basis for a real relationship. Again, a waste of time. If she were truly interested in you, you would not feel compelled to "take a big step back." You're spinning your wheels because you know the interest is not really mutual and you're trying to find ways to hang on a little longer. 

It's time to move on. Find a woman who makes her interest clear and is excited to see you regularly. 

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