kpa Posted November 8, 2005 Share Posted November 8, 2005 Alwaysunsure -- I'm so sorry to hear. Please take care of yourself and lean on us if necessary. Maybe this will be good for him. Sometimes it takes something drastic to realize there is a problem. If he stops abusing drugs is there a chance for you guys to get back together? Or is the damage done? Take care... Link to post Share on other sites
Neptune Posted November 8, 2005 Share Posted November 8, 2005 You did the correct thing to break up. Now if you decide you want a relationship with him I recommend you give him an ultimatum. Go into detox and drug rehab. No relationship whatsoever until he has proved his recovery. It is likely better for you if you just run from this and never look back. The chance of those who detox and stay clean is pretty small so if you get back together it will likely be an issue again. Link to post Share on other sites
RainyDayWoman Posted November 8, 2005 Share Posted November 8, 2005 same exact thing, same circumstances happened to me with my boyfriend after almost 9 years. i can only tell you, the best thing you can do is stay away from him for now. it is an unhealthy relationship of less-than-truths, and it will only bring you down. i know how strong you have to be do that, but obviously it can be done. good for you. it's effing hard, isn't it? there is hope. i'm happy now, and i know i wouldn't be if i was still with him. you will be too. Link to post Share on other sites
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted November 8, 2005 Share Posted November 8, 2005 I'm sorry Always. I know what your going through and were all here if you need us. Did he seem sad when you broke up? If not, then he's probably excited that he can go back to using drugs without having to hide it from someone. I'm with Big B. Once you start you can't stop. At least for that night. I when on 12 hour binges. I mean a straight 12 hours of blowing lines from start to finish. Its not a fun feeling coming down from that. But I'm able to not do it for months. My fiance doesn't let me do it and I'm perfectly fine with that. You did the right thinkg and you know you did. Don't second guess yourself. My mom didn't do it and my I had a drug addict father my entire life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Alwaysunsure Posted November 8, 2005 Author Share Posted November 8, 2005 Thanks guys. I think this has been the longest day of my life. I am a wreck. But, I know this is a step in the right direction. I agree, that he is probably happy to be able to go out and do drugs whenever he wants to now. But, he was really upset about the whole thing. It is tough. Link to post Share on other sites
kpa Posted November 14, 2005 Share Posted November 14, 2005 Thanks guys. I think this has been the longest day of my life. I am a wreck. But, I know this is a step in the right direction. I agree, that he is probably happy to be able to go out and do drugs whenever he wants to now. But, he was really upset about the whole thing. It is tough. Alwaysunsure -- how are you doing? You OK? Link to post Share on other sites
Steve-o11 Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 My ex-gf did alot of coke, and whenever she did, she ALWAYS: 1. Blinked alot 2. Moved her hands alot 3. Constantly sniffing and snorting 4. Got hot flashes So i guess if u see any of these, id be aware... Link to post Share on other sites
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