Bl8ckMamba24 Posted April 18, 2023 Share Posted April 18, 2023 Three months of no contact. I admit I have attempted to contact my ex but she has not responded to any emails. I also sent her a letter to inform her that I hold nothing against her and have no hatred for her... until yesterday when I got an alert from my phone network stating she had attempted to call me at 15:50 and then 16:06. I attempted to respond making sure everything was okay and got nothing in return so I'm unsure if she had still blocked all communications. Eventually my best friend whom knows my ex contacted her to say that I wasnt sure if she got my messages but I saw two missed calls from her and was everything okay. Her response was: Hi S, just to confirm I have not called her at all and I won't ever have a reason to call her again. I was very clear in my last email to her that I wouldn't respond to any other contact again regardless of its content. Please remind sheena that I wish her nothing but light, peace and happiness but she needs to leave me alone. I didn't realise I needed to say the same to you but just to ensure clarity all round I'm going to block your number as well. I'm not doing it with any mallace, you both know me better than that, I just want to move on with my life and that can't have either of you in it other than to politely say hi if i ever bump into you. Take good care of yourselves and each other. X No it didn't, that's not me calling her 🤷🏻♀️ Bye, take good care x ---------------------------------------------- Why is she lying to me about calling me, she clearly did otherwise I wouldnt have received two notifications of it. I checked with the phone company who also stated that two attempted calls were registered but due to no signal they couldn't connect. Who calls someone but then states they will never have a reason to contact me again and don't want me in their life... Why is this happening?? Any help understanding this would be really helpful. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted April 18, 2023 Share Posted April 18, 2023 (edited) No, it doesn't sound like she is playing games at all. 8 minutes ago, Bl8ckMamba24 said: that's not me calling her It honestly doesn't matter. My guess it was either a butt dial or someone was playing with her phone. You really need to let it go and stop sending her messages. 8 minutes ago, Bl8ckMamba24 said: I just want to move on with my life and that can't have either of you in it Respect this. Edited April 18, 2023 by JTSW Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bl8ckMamba24 Posted April 18, 2023 Author Share Posted April 18, 2023 I have left her alone for a while and I do respect those wishes. Had I not have seen those two calls I'd never have returned to contact her to see what was up. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted April 18, 2023 Share Posted April 18, 2023 I think it's best just to let this go now and put it all behind you. She doesn't want any contact. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted April 18, 2023 Share Posted April 18, 2023 1 hour ago, Bl8ckMamba24 said: in my last email to her that I wouldn't respond to any other contact again regardless of its content. Please remind sheena that she needs to leave me alone. The best thing you can do is delete and block her and all her people from ALL your social media, messaging apps, contact lists and devices. She's also blocking the friend you contacted to contact her. Also reset your phone to automatic spam block and don't accept calls from unknown numbers. Interestingly you stated she was stalking you before: 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted April 19, 2023 Share Posted April 19, 2023 Who knows? Honestly it does not matter. Dwelling on this and spending your mental energy fixating on this is not going to do you any good. She doesn't want contact with you. Let this go and leave her alone. When you saw those two missed calls from her, your reaction was to immediately call her and not only that, but have your friend contact her as well. That's a bit much. You were a bit too eager to establish contact again. You should have just left it alone in the first place. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Giovane Posted April 19, 2023 Share Posted April 19, 2023 Are you secretly hoping that there might be some way for the two of you to get back together? From what you are writing, it really doesn‘t seem like there is anything worthwhile at the end of that particular rainbow. Whether she is playing games, whether she is not quite all there or whether the calls were some sort of accident, we have no way of knowing. What we do know is that the question is messing with your head, which it shouldn‘t be doing. Hence, the best advice we can give you really is to end it thoroughly, the way she described it in her message to your friend. Try to forget about her, get rid of anything that reminds you of her, busy yourself, and block her from all ways of contacting you. Try to move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted April 19, 2023 Share Posted April 19, 2023 It was probably an accdiental dial, OP. No need to send your friend after her or investigate with the phone company. She has been crystal-clear now that you need to leave her alone. Forever, period. It would be best if you also block her so that that this can never happen again. It sends you into a spiral that isn't worth it. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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