flava Posted July 3, 2001 Share Posted July 3, 2001 Hi.. today is 20 days after he left me, it was the 14th june. it was really a horror day. He left me to visit another girl, and stayed 4 days with her. I can't forget the day after, i can't breathe, i thought a big elephant is walking over my heart, so that i will never wake up again in this bloody sunday. The next day i gave him a call and told him, he has to come back, because i feel so bad, he was still in bed and said, Why did u call me? are u crazy? you have to learn to be with out me. i was stalked on phone, i was so sad how can i be 4j with such guy. wenn we were together he was a nice guy, i didn't know before, that people change in a second. anyway this all pass, i don't know how...things change after he came back, i didn't say anything, just try to move on life. after that he went 2 weekened to her. now i feel he is regreting, or.......i don't know why???? what happenes........and wenn ever we make fun, and talk nice , he says as a joke it doesn't mean that, we are getting back. so he provoke, to know my answer. but now i'm fine, sometimes i miss him, but it is very normal. so for all of you who has got a break up right now, don't be stressed, don't ask why i feel that, if u like it or not u fill, no choice, JUST FEEL IT, it helps to go through life, it is nice that things change and that for good, "everything falls where it belongs"" so don't try to have somebody which doesn't belong to you...... so thanks people who had helped me in this forum, specially TONY, thank you and god bless you.......... have everbody a very nice day....... i feel good, i'm happy, that i still live .... Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 3, 2001 Share Posted July 3, 2001 It sounds like you are doing very well. Break ups do hurt, they hurt a lot. But you never want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. You can't force people to love you. And, yes, I too am amazed at how people can change so quickly...almost overnight. Relationships can go from great to zero very quickly. People's feelings can change rapidly. Sometimes, I wonder if they actually do...if they change gradually and then one day the other person decides to let it all show. You are doing very good now. You will still feel hurt from time to time but it won't be nearly as bad. You are much better off being without someone who does not want to be with you. There are so many men who will want you to be their special lady. When you are ready, one of them will come into your life. Link to post Share on other sites
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