deretsigernU Posted November 8, 2005 Share Posted November 8, 2005 Heya, folks, any advice, or whatever you have would be greatly appreciated. It feels awkward asking other people about help in a relationship, but I may as well give this a shot. So there is this girl in Psychology class. I really like her as a friend, and hope to progress it to something further, talking to her is pretty fun. We really hit it off the previous few months in a Triginometry class where I ALMOST asked her out at the end of the class, but backed off because well, I don't rightly know I froze up in fear or something. Back to the predicament, we really like talking to each other I make her laugh, she makes me laugh, but you get the picture hopefully. BUY I don't know how to progress the relationship further, where to go first, how to go about doing it. I value our friendship a whole lot, and I don't want things to be awkward between us if I do something stupid like ask her out, and she turns me down, then I make an *** out of myself. So, I think I know the first few steps. Which would probably be to improve communication? Like Email, phone, etc. Then should I talk to her about things she likes? I.E. She writes, so I should ask to read what she writes? Alright, if that wasn't enough, there are these rumors she is a lesbian. Now, I don't mind that at all as her friend, but if its going to be awfully hard to progress a relationship further when I'm a guy that likes girls, but she's a girl that likes girls. Is there some type of signal? Once again, I don't want to make an *** out of myself. Well, it gets worse because a huge percent of the school thinks I am Gay. Yeah, I'm not, I just don't date every stranger I meet. So, my question is how do I progress this relationship further unless I know I'm getting the correct signals? She's always blushing whenever I talk to her, so I don't know. I think I know what to do, but I'm questioning if I am getting the right signs to go ahead. I really like her, and I don't want to screw this up. Link to post Share on other sites
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