Alpacalia Posted June 15, 2023 Share Posted June 15, 2023 2 hours ago, GoodVibess said: I believe he is catfishing me honestly, his photos are screenshots. He won’t video call me. Regardless of the reality of this person's identity, it is not sensible to date someone who stirs up doubts about yourself. It is foolish to put yourself in a situation like that, like bringing a Swiss army knife to a gun fight. Steer clear of people like this and focus on making a genuine connection with someone you can trust. This is not the behavior of a man of decent character and good intentions. Please spend some time with yourself and figure out what's really important to you in relationships. It's ultimately your choice whether or not you want to engage. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 15, 2023 Share Posted June 15, 2023 6 hours ago, GoodVibess said: He said my pics are great but he’s unsure if i’m worthy of him. Since he’s fit and i’m average, he said he could help me lose 10 lbs tho. I thought the comment about girls only wanting him for sex cringey, but he's just outdone himself! This guy is a complete and utter wanker. GoodVibess, where is your self respect that you continued to engage with him after this comment?? Link to post Share on other sites
Acacia98 Posted June 16, 2023 Share Posted June 16, 2023 Frankly OP, I don't understand why you are still talking to this guy. Do you hate yourself so much that you would go out of your way to seek disrespect online? If you're looking to date somebody and actually want to end up in a happy and healthy relationship, you need to have an idea of what the right guy will sound like. Someone who takes time out of his day to hurt and manipulate a stranger surely isn't your dream guy? What exactly are you looking for OP? And let's go beyond physical appearance. You don't seem to have a problem identifying the kind of guy you find physically attractive. So let's focus on talking about your dream guy's personality and character. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted June 16, 2023 Share Posted June 16, 2023 OP, I took at look at your last thread since I couldn't remember your back-story. Your previous relationship was toxic and ended with your ex threatening to charge you with harrassment if you didn't stop contacting him. Now you are latching yourself onto this creep you've never met who has been rude and inappropriate from the beginning. For your own good, you need to take a break from dating for a while and sort out your underlying issues instead. They're leading you down a very dark path. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Jesslyn Posted June 17, 2023 Share Posted June 17, 2023 It's important to reflect on what you truly deserve in a relationship. Consider finding someone who values and respects you, rather than engaging with individuals who seek to disrespect and manipulate. Keep your standards high and prioritize a partner who embodies qualities that align with your values and desires. Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted June 17, 2023 Share Posted June 17, 2023 (edited) You’ve already identified him as a catfish so leave him alone. The attention might feel nice if you want that sort of attention or feel lonely. I don’t get the sense you’re taking this person seriously at all through your posts and toying with the situation. If loneliness is the issue or wanting interaction with people, look at meeting new people locally. In person. Start going to meet ups and events. I recall you live with your parents so you may feel restricted. This all started with a 10pm call because you didn’t want your parents overhearing your conversations. Is it feasible to move out and gain more independence? Edited June 17, 2023 by glows Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted June 17, 2023 Share Posted June 17, 2023 Oh please, Ms. Vibess. You're better than this. Link to post Share on other sites
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