Kassieee Posted June 14, 2023 Share Posted June 14, 2023 Interested in seeing what men see as red flags and deal breakers when seeking out women. List them. Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted June 14, 2023 Share Posted June 14, 2023 Bitterness about past relationships and / or family members Game playing "I just have guy friends; don't get along well with women" Wanting to text "all day every day." Drama Self destructive behaviors Insecurity Jealousy Religion Racism Conspiracy theories I could go on ... 😄😄 Link to post Share on other sites
Weezy1973 Posted June 14, 2023 Share Posted June 14, 2023 Women who act differently around different people. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted June 15, 2023 Share Posted June 15, 2023 Pretty much a similar list to @NuevoYorko but add to that messy, hoarder or poor hygiene. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Lisa Posted June 15, 2023 Senior Moderators Share Posted June 15, 2023 Thread just had a clean up for discussing another poster's issue without their permission or inclusion Link to post Share on other sites
MarkB96 Posted June 17, 2023 Share Posted June 17, 2023 Rudeness (to service workers or anyone in general) Link to post Share on other sites
Mrin Posted June 17, 2023 Share Posted June 17, 2023 I'll add a few: 1. Dishonesty of any sort 2. Prior infidelity without a good rationale. This is a slippery slope somewhat. If it is infidelity inside of a horrible prior marriage - that I can look beyond and actually empathize with. Infidelity within a shorter term dating relationship - big red flag. 3. Hard drug use or alcohol addiction 4. Boring 5. Rampant materialism 6. Lack of curiosity 7. Low libido - next! Link to post Share on other sites
Grumpy Bob Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 (edited) Those who say something along the lines of "I've been married 3 times, and each one was great, and we're all still really good friends, we just drifted apart" Makes me wonder how long it would take to get bored with me? Weird hang-ups Anti-vaxxers. (Not people who didn't get vaccinated, but those who [are extreme] Those were are clearly finished with "Married Life," and now "just want to travel and have fun." Those who go into meticulous details about how perfect their life is, in every way, but then concede that occasionally they'd like a man to fit into some tiny corner of that life. Edited June 26, 2023 by a LoveShack.org Moderator civility Link to post Share on other sites
CollinW Posted June 26, 2023 Share Posted June 26, 2023 (edited) Smokers and drug users Inconsistency between what they expect and what they provide (no picking and choosing when to be traditional and modern) Overly indulgent in celebrity culture Lack of domestication and bad hygiene Extremely political, [particularly if they are extreme in the opposite direction to me] Women that sit around and talk about what they want to do instead of doing it. Edited June 26, 2023 by a LoveShack.org Moderator political in non political thread Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kassieee Posted June 26, 2023 Author Share Posted June 26, 2023 On 6/25/2023 at 1:49 AM, Grumpy Bob said: Those who say something along the lines of "I've been married 3 times, and each one was great, and we're all still really good friends, we just drifted apart" Makes me wonder how long it would take to get bored with me? Weird hang-ups Anti-vaxxers. (Not people who didn't get vaccinated, but those who can't hear the word without foaming at the mouth.) Those were are clearly finished with "Married Life," and now "just want to travel and have fun." Those who go into meticulous details about how perfect their life is, in every way, but then concede that occasionally they'd like a man to fit into some tiny corner of that life. I On 6/17/2023 at 12:45 AM, Mrin said: I'll add a few: 1. Dishonesty of any sort 2. Prior infidelity without a good rationale. This is a slippery slope somewhat. If it is infidelity inside of a horrible prior marriage - that I can look beyond and actually empathize with. Infidelity within a shorter term dating relationship - big red flag. 3. Hard drug use or alcohol addiction 4. Boring 5. Rampant materialism 6. Lack of curiosity 7. Low libido - next! What if she experimented with drugs but doesn't do them now n never got addicted. Deal breaker? Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 13 hours ago, justaskingok said: I What if she experimented with drugs but doesn't do them now n never got addicted. Deal breaker? Deal breakers are different from one man to another. There is not 1 answer that fits all men. Some men would worry about a woman that experimented with drugs, others would not mind. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted June 29, 2023 Share Posted June 29, 2023 On 6/26/2023 at 7:18 AM, CollinW said: Lack of domestication What do you mean by that? Not used to family life/not accustomed to household life? In practice? Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted June 29, 2023 Share Posted June 29, 2023 1 hour ago, justwhoiam said: What do you mean by that? Not used to family life/not accustomed to household life? In practice? Dating someone who whips up a delicious meal in a spotless home every night - where’s Rosie when we need her? Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted June 29, 2023 Share Posted June 29, 2023 11 minutes ago, Alpacalia said: Dating someone who whips up a delicious meal in a spotless home every night - where’s Rosie when we need her? Let's be honest, good-sized homes that are spotless are usually cleaned by staff. Link to post Share on other sites
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