cooljack23 Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 (edited) Where is the rule age don't matter when dating if 28 years old man, dating 49-year-old women Edited June 22, 2023 by cooljack23 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 A 28 year old is an adult whether they are dating a 49 year old woman or a 49 year old man. Whether that is a good idea or not remains to be seen. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author cooljack23 Posted June 22, 2023 Author Share Posted June 22, 2023 (edited) Because my girlfriend is ask me, it's OK to date me a 28-year-old man if she's 49 years old woman Edited June 22, 2023 by cooljack23 Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 Sure, if you both like each other. She might not be able to have children at her age, if that's important to you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author cooljack23 Posted June 22, 2023 Author Share Posted June 22, 2023 I'm trying to explain to her the love matter to her age, don't matter Link to post Share on other sites
Ami1uwant Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 44 minutes ago, cooljack23 said: Because my girlfriend is ask me, it's OK to date me a 28-year-old man if she's 49 years old woman She’s a cougar…. Link to post Share on other sites
Ami1uwant Posted June 22, 2023 Share Posted June 22, 2023 18 minutes ago, NuevoYorko said: Sure, if you both like each other. She might not be able to have children at her age, if that's important to you. A cousin of mine married a guy about 11 yrs younger than her. I think the kid thing caught up and led to their divorce during Covid. Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 (edited) There is no age rule and as long as both are legal adults you are free to do date who you please. It has become far more commonplace in the age of online dating for women to get involved with much younger men. Most who have done online dating for a period of time have probably either done it or at the very least entertained the idea. Older women and younger men are actually pretty physically compatible. Many women in their 40's, 50's, and 60's (heck sometimes even their 70's) still have a lot of energy and continue to want a very active sex life and sometimes they begin finding that most of the available men their own age or older don't offer them that kind of chemistry. But younger men do. So they begin to become more attracted to younger dudes. So if you find a lady 15 to 20+ years older that you are attracted to and she likewise is attracted to you also then go for it. She likely doesn't want a serious relationship to form from the situation though so don't try to be some kind of Romeo. Just be an attractive and charming younger guy that she might want to invite over for a drink and occasionally go to a movie with. Edited June 23, 2023 by Sony12 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 Also if you are 28 and there indeed is a 49:year old lady that is interested in you then you probably aren't her first younger guy (as most people don't immediately start dating people young enough to be their kid/old enough to be their parent but overtime build up to that through past enjoyable experiences). So try to show that you have experience and are comfortable with age gap dating as well. People who seem a little intimidated by age gap dating come off as being a little less attractive to those that have been around that block a couple of times. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 Would you like to have children one day? If so, then this wont work for you. She is too old to have children. The age gap is quite a large one so I can't see this being long term. Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 2 hours ago, JTSW said: Would you like to have children one day? If so, then this wont work for you. She is too old to have children. The age gap is quite a large one so I can't see this being long term. Yeah most women aren't looking for anything serious or long-term from a guy more than a decade younger than her (and especially not if he is twenty years or more younger). In those situations they are more or less just looking for a guy they are extremely attracted to and to have fun with them. In this situation the TC called the lady his girlfriend even though it sounds like she is questioning if they should date. Sounds like a situation where they may have fooled around and now he is trying to get her to actually 'date' him. Probably a good chance that isn't what she is looking for. Nothing wrong with being her boy toy though (which very well maybe what she is looking for from a guy 21 years younger). 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 The rule of thumb is our age divided by 2 then add 7. The result is how much younger you can date. Her result is 31. Link to post Share on other sites
Weezy1973 Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 There is no rule when both people are adults. Although I suspect a similarly age gapped 40 year old man wanting to date a 19 year old woman would be seen as a predator by many. @cooljack23 do you have a lot of experience with dating and relationships? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted June 24, 2023 Share Posted June 24, 2023 10 hours ago, Weezy1973 said: There is no rule when both people are adults. Although I suspect a similarly age gapped 40 year old man wanting to date a 19 year old woman would be seen as a predator by many. @cooljack23 do you have a lot of experience with dating and relationships? Lol would depend on how rich he was. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted June 24, 2023 Share Posted June 24, 2023 Just date her and see where it takes ya. Sometime these things can work. As long as you both are happy and fulfilled. Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 On 6/22/2023 at 1:50 PM, cooljack23 said: I'm trying to explain to her the love matter to her age, don't matter It might matter TO HER. It's her choice whether to go out with you or not. It's her choice, also, to decide what age range she is interested in dating. Link to post Share on other sites
Alvi Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 What is she saying to you? Does she wants to date you? How did you meet her? There is no long term future in a relationship when a woman is 21 yeas older than a guy. She is highly unlikely to give a guy a child at her age unless she is willing to consider very expensive options such as donor eggs (even with that her chances are very slim) or finding a surrogate mother. Provided that she wants to have kids at all. It could be a short term fun if both parties are onboard. Or it could be an on-going thing that lasts for a while. But this is a relationship that has an expiration date. And no, there is not going to be a marriage, kids, dogs, a big house with a white picket fences in the future. Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 I'm noticing the TC hasn't logged on since the last post he made so I wonder if the lady gave him a firm 'no'? I can imagine how a lady would respond to a guy young enough to be her kid if he started talking about that stuff with her. If being a boy toy isn't satisfying enough for you than perhaps dating older women isn't up your alley. Sure you can start talking about more after a period of time but just be good with being a boy toy first. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cooljack23 Posted July 29, 2024 Author Share Posted July 29, 2024 (edited) Give me the update for the post. We are broken up now and I moved on. Edited July 29, 2024 by cooljack23 Link to post Share on other sites
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