Pushed Her Away - Can't Come to Terms With it

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4 hours ago, helloladies21 said:

You're more than welcome to your conclusion. I believe it's incorrect.

It's not incorrect at all.

I'm having a hard time wondering why you treated her so badly when she hasn't done anything wrong.

4 hours ago, helloladies21 said:

No I was genuinely upset with this.

Upset about what exactly? That she had slept with someone else before you?

That's a double standard by you right there considering your sexual history with women.

4 hours ago, helloladies21 said:

This is all about how she treated me and how it made me feel.

And what treatment would that be?

Caring about you? Being there and fully committed to you?

Your feelings on her past are not valid.

You are judging her and that is very unfair of you.

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On 6/25/2023 at 12:14 AM, helloladies21 said:

I have no problem knowing about my date's sexual history.

You clearly do.

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On 6/25/2023 at 12:24 AM, helloladies21 said:

It's a double standard and it's hypocritical. Unacceptable. I have no regret calling her out for this behavior. She was wrong not to tell me and she was wrong not to apologize for it.

Again, she does NOT owe you anything.

She does NOT have to disclose anything from her past.

You haven't disclosed anything about your very full sexual past so why should she.

You are greatly overreacting and acting like a child over nothing.

This is why you are single at your age and women don't stick around.

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It's been 3 months and she is probably with a nice guy now.

A guy that is not treating her like she committed a crime.

A guy that is making her happy.

Yet here you are, still hung up on all this nonsense.

You really should just forget about it and move on.

She clearly has and good for her.