Author Kassieee Posted July 10, 2023 Author Share Posted July 10, 2023 6 hours ago, JTSW said: I think you took this the wrong way. You were standing outside so the comment was just a casual one. You took it to mean he was watching you when I highly doubt that. I thought you were seeing someone anyway? He had to be watching me as he was working/dJing to know I wasn't dancing much....his observation was right, because i wasn't. There's no doubt he watching me and took notice in some way.....there's no doubt. By the time he approached me, it was the end of the night, he was done working. Your thoughts are wrong about me seeing someone. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 10, 2023 Share Posted July 10, 2023 2 minutes ago, justaskingok said: He had to be watching me as he was working/dJing to know I wasn't dancing much....his observation was right, because i wasn't. There's no doubt he watching me and took notice in some way.....there's no doubt. By the time he approached me, it was the end of the night, he was done working. Your thoughts are wrong about me seeing someone. Well I doubt he's suffering from memory loss that he'd forget that he just saw that you weren't dancing to the music he selected. If I were a DJ that would bother me too, especially if you're someone who likes to dance. I'd want feedback as to why. You seem to want this action to mean something else, what? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted July 10, 2023 Share Posted July 10, 2023 It's normal to have a crush on someone, but there's no need to get stressed out about it. Try not to think about the comment and just go back another night. Maybe it will pass, but for now, just acknowledge how you feel and give yourself a break. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kassieee Posted July 10, 2023 Author Share Posted July 10, 2023 1 minute ago, stillafool said: Well I doubt he's suffering from memory loss that he'd forget that he just saw that you weren't dancing to the music he selected. If I were a DJ that would bother me too, especially if you're someone who likes to dance. I'd want feedback as to why. You seem to want this action to mean something else, what? Yes I was thinking that too, as I said in my OP. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 10, 2023 Share Posted July 10, 2023 On 7/6/2023 at 10:55 PM, justaskingok said: What do guys do these days to pick up women IN PERSON..not online bogus. how can you differentiate just making convo and interested. They usually ask for your phone number and then make arrangements to take you out. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 (edited) 17 hours ago, justaskingok said: He had to be watching me He was watching everyone. DJ's take in everyone's reaction to their set. Edited July 11, 2023 by JTSW Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kassieee Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 4 hours ago, JTSW said: He was watching everyone. DJ's take in everyone's reaction to their set. Maybe. Maybe not. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 22 minutes ago, justaskingok said: Maybe. Maybe not. No, it's a fact. Accept it. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 22 hours ago, justaskingok said: . There's no doubt he watching me and took notice in some way.....there's no doubt. He may have been checking you out along with all the other women there, but if he were interested, he would have asked for your contact info. If you really have a crush on him, try going back to the club. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 "Interested" is relative, especially if you're a DJ working in a crowded venue full of hot looking young people. If he's single - or maybe not single but open for a hookup - finding himself standing next to an attractive young woman might be worth tossing out some bait. Lots of women act like groupies with DJ's. Plenty will go home with one if he pays them a bit of attention. Basically an opportunistic move from a guy who might be on the prowl. That might have been the case, or perhaps he was just getting your take on the music since you were both in the same place at the same time for a moment. Or making small talk. A dance, party or similar is a social event after all. He didn't hunt you down, ask for your number or try to set up a meeting, so I wouldn't be thinking he was feeling "interested" in a sense that implies that it might lead anywhere. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 (edited) I’m guessing since it was a fancy hall with food catered and all he may be a small time DJ doing gigs on the side. You don’t know his name. When I’m interested I’ll casually ask for their name or ask around. You can ask your fam or friends if they know him. Again really did not think you’d be this interested. I thought this was a missed connection sad but fun le sigh thing. Don’t we all have that from time to time? I didnt read anything that serious in your post. Edited July 11, 2023 by glows Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kassieee Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 44 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: He may have been checking you out along with all the other women there, but if he were interested, he would have asked for your contact info. If you really have a crush on him, try going back to the club. Keep in mind, or convo was cut short as I was talking because someone interrupted abruptly, and I walked away from him without a bye even, and i didnt even think to ask for his number- who knows if he wouldve asked for mine if our convo continued. It was the end of the night, everyone was heading home at that point including me so there wasn't a way for us to catch up again. It wasn't a club, it was a hall. Can't go there again unless I set up a whole event. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kassieee Posted July 11, 2023 Author Share Posted July 11, 2023 33 minutes ago, glows said: I’m guessing since it was a fancy hall with food catered and all he may be a small time DJ doing gigs on the side. You don’t know his name. When I’m interested I’ll casually ask for their name or ask around. You can ask your fam or friends if they know him. Again really did not think you’d be this interested. I thought this was a missed connection sad but fun le sigh thing. Don’t we all have that from time to time? I didnt read anything that serious in your post. Tbh I'm not even interested in him anymore. Just replying to new messages 1 Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted July 11, 2023 Share Posted July 11, 2023 All good hun. Plan some fun weekenders with friends. I’m enjoying this warm weather. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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