toughlove1993 Posted July 9, 2023 Share Posted July 9, 2023 Hi all, I hope you're all doing well. So last week this girl (22F) at work told a mutual work colleague that she finds me (30M) attractive. Yesterday I saw her and I noticed she kept staring at me so I gathered she is clearly interested. I ended up going to her and asking to get her number which she quickly said yes to but the conversation went by quick and she ended up getting my number instead and I did not end up getting up getting hers. She ended the conversation by saying "expect to get a message from me" in a happy way and I replied " I'll talk to you later". Anyway this was about 16 hours ago and I have not heard anything back. Now I know there could be reasons why she did not text back, maybe she did not put the right number down? She was showing me her phone as I was telling her the number. I am 99% certain I gave her the right number. She could also be busy, but from what I saw, she seemed quite interested so I thought she would find time to message me yesterday? Also, I hope I did not come across as though I am not confident because I gave her my number and waiting for her to message me instead of getting her number. Things just happened so fast. I am wondering did I somehow mess things up or am I over thinking this? I'll see her Saturday, I am thinking of speaking to her when I see her next Saturday and say "I was going to message you last week but your phone number had not come through". She gave me a brief call just for her to save my number but it was not long enough for the call to actually get through to my phone so I don't have her number. I was feeling good about this yesterday but now I feel a little down thinking I somehow messed things up. Link to post Share on other sites
Ageless Wisdom23 Posted July 9, 2023 Share Posted July 9, 2023 When you do happen to see Her, Perhaps ask her if you gave her the right number? If you do not hear anything before Then, I just hope she was not playing head games with you. I find it odd she has not text you yet. Unless playing hard to get. However, Before Saturday, She just 😉might text. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 9, 2023 Share Posted July 9, 2023 It's tricky hitting on women at work. Perhaps she was trying to sidestep the awkwardness of that by just taking your number. Have you spoken to her much at work or on breaks? Does she have a BF? Does she date coworkers? Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted July 9, 2023 Share Posted July 9, 2023 (edited) No, you didn’t do anything wrong. Leave this on the back burner for awhile and enjoy your life. She said she’d text so she’ll text. And if she doesn’t, you don’t want her anyway - flaky and disingenuous. You didn’t even notice her before the other colleague said anything so why let this affect you so much? She may be second guessing the age gap or maybe she’s just taking her time. Either way carry on. Edited July 9, 2023 by glows Link to post Share on other sites
Alvi Posted July 9, 2023 Share Posted July 9, 2023 Give it a few days. She probably has some other commitments and/or priorities in her life. If you hear from her, great! If not, carry on with your life. Don't make it an issue or act weird at work if she doesn't gets back to you. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted July 10, 2023 Share Posted July 10, 2023 She said 'expect to get a message' but didn't state when. Just have a little patience. She will message you. Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted July 10, 2023 Share Posted July 10, 2023 Maybe she is a bit nervous. If I like a man I might be a bit nervous about calling first.😝 Link to post Share on other sites
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