Author flight E Posted July 14, 2023 Author Share Posted July 14, 2023 wiseman, do you think i still have a chance with her Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 You don't know much about women if you think the communication should be left up to us. Next time, put in more effort to talk to the woman you say you love. Link to post Share on other sites
Author flight E Posted July 15, 2023 Author Share Posted July 15, 2023 28 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: You don't know much about women if you think the communication should be left up to us. Next time, put in more effort to talk to the woman you say you love. well, i there still any hope. i do love her, if not i wont be here Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 1 minute ago, flight E said: well, i there still any hope. i do love her, if not i wont be here I don't think so, no. It's going to best to let her go. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author flight E Posted July 15, 2023 Author Share Posted July 15, 2023 1 minute ago, ExpatInItaly said: I don't think so, no. It's going to best to let her go. wow. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 6 minutes ago, flight E said: wow. Why are you surprised? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 If you want her back, you're going to have to apologise for being not meeting her needs and commit to calling her at least 50% of the time. Are you happy to do this? Link to post Share on other sites
Author flight E Posted July 15, 2023 Author Share Posted July 15, 2023 16 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: Why are you surprised? cos, i dont see what i did wrong. I always called back if she did and i missed her call and she seemed happy all the while Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 On 7/13/2023 at 3:32 PM, flight E said: i do most of the finances cos she is out of work now so I think the least she can do is manage the communicatiion, she knows I care about her, she didnt mind calling everyday for the past 3months until about 3weeks ago when all this started 3 weeks and all this trouble and games being played? how old are you two? why don’t you date someone in your area? why isn’t she working? Can she support herself? have you sent her money? Link to post Share on other sites
Author flight E Posted July 15, 2023 Author Share Posted July 15, 2023 6 minutes ago, S2B said: 3 weeks and all this trouble and games being played? how old are you two? why don’t you date someone in your area? why isn’t she working? Can she support herself? have you sent her money? she was in my area for a while and its her i want. she doesnt have a job now. I cant send her money when she is acting this way and its wasnt about money. She is not a gold digger. I am experienced enough to know. She is a very decent girl. Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 Can you answer my other questions? Also, how much money have you given her? Link to post Share on other sites
Author flight E Posted July 15, 2023 Author Share Posted July 15, 2023 6 minutes ago, S2B said: Can you answer my other questions? Also, how much money have you given her? am 48 she is 31. for money, its difficult to state cause i dont give her a bulk at once. i give her according to her needs but its will total to something reasonable where am from Link to post Share on other sites
Author flight E Posted July 15, 2023 Author Share Posted July 15, 2023 9 minutes ago, S2B said: Can you answer my other questions? Also, how much money have you given her? but you can trust my take when i say she is no goldigger. she only started accepting money from me when we started dating and i had known her for years before. she is beautiful. i have seen men offer her loads of money and she refused. Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 Ok then. You seem intent on this continuing. Get used to her criticism. I’d see how long she keeps seeing you if you don’t send her one dime. 31 years old - she should be capable of supporting herself. Link to post Share on other sites
Author flight E Posted July 15, 2023 Author Share Posted July 15, 2023 10 minutes ago, S2B said: Ok then. You seem intent on this continuing. Get used to her criticism. I’d see how long she keeps seeing you if you don’t send her one dime. 31 years old - she should be capable of supporting herself. at 48 i am no fool. i have seen women. she is different when it comes to money. Africa is different. its not easy to get a job, especially for a lady if you not ready to sleep around. I can tell you 150% that its not about money. Anyhows, I cant continue if it she acts this way cos thats not why i got to like her. yea her beauty played a part but it was her humility for me. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 2 minutes ago, flight E said: at 48 i am no fool. i have seen women. But yet, you don't seem to understand the very basic principle of reciprocating communication. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author flight E Posted July 15, 2023 Author Share Posted July 15, 2023 1 minute ago, ExpatInItaly said: But yet, you don't seem to understand the very basic principle of reciprocating communication. it would be difficult for you to understand what i was doing. I understand the principle of communication. I was doing the spending. it wasnt too much to ask for her to communicate...it was even ideal....I am not even willing to change that under the same circumstances.....back to what I asked...................So you convinced, its over? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 1 minute ago, flight E said: So you convinced, its over? Yes. Sorry, man. You need to move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author flight E Posted July 15, 2023 Author Share Posted July 15, 2023 16 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: Yes. Sorry, man. You need to move on. thanks Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 27 minutes ago, flight E said: it wasnt too much to ask for her to communicate...it was even ideal....I am not even willing to change that under the same circumstances.... She feels it was too much. And I agree with her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author flight E Posted July 15, 2023 Author Share Posted July 15, 2023 1 hour ago, basil67 said: If you want her back, you're going to have to apologise for being not meeting her needs and commit to calling her at least 50% of the time. Are you happy to do this? hmm...I am not happy to do that cos am not sure that why she started acting up Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 (edited) 15 minutes ago, flight E said: hmm...I am not happy to do that cos am not sure that why she started acting up I think you're the only one here who can't connect the dots on her testing you...you refusing to act....and her ending it. It's too much of a coincidence to not be a main part of the equation Edited July 15, 2023 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
Author flight E Posted July 15, 2023 Author Share Posted July 15, 2023 13 minutes ago, basil67 said: I think you're the only one here who can't connect the dots on her testing you...you refusing to act....and her ending it. It's too much of a coincidence to not be a main part of the equation what do you propose...would apologizing work....wont it make me look weak...remember i foot a lot of bills for this girl....am no sugar daddy... she is a good person who is in need right now thats why am helping out.. she never tries to exploit. Dont doubt me on this... she is beautiful but is quite the religious one if not would easily get a stake of cash from men if that was her game. i have seen her refuse more than once... am just bloody scared of making a wrong move Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 You’ve obviously already made some wrong moves. let it go. She will figure out how to support herself. you don’t want to make more effort for her and she doesn’t think you do enough - so it’s not a good match. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 15, 2023 Share Posted July 15, 2023 (edited) 33 minutes ago, flight E said: what do you propose...would apologizing work....wont it make me look weak...remember i foot a lot of bills for this girl....am no sugar daddy... she is a good person who is in need right now thats why am helping out.. she never tries to exploit. Dont doubt me on this... she is beautiful but is quite the religious one if not would easily get a stake of cash from men if that was her game. i have seen her refuse more than once... am just bloody scared of making a wrong move Apologies aren't easy and take much strength of character, so no, it won't make you look weak. But only apologise if you believe you were genuinely wrong in not making an effort to call her. And only if you plan to keep calling her at least 50% of the time. It may be too late, but it's your only option if you want her back. Edited July 15, 2023 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
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