break up?

[flight E]

5 minutes ago, basil67 said:

Apologies aren't easy and take much strength of character, so no, it won't make you look weak. 

But only apologise if you believe you were genuinely wrong in not making an effort to call her.  And only if you plan to keep calling her at least 50% of the time.   It may be too late, but it's your only option if you want her back.

i dont think i did wrong and since it may be too late....i will try to move on....but if she reaches out, I will keep guys posted. Thanks y'all... you wont know how much of a help you have been... its virtually a lifesaver  

[basil67]

Just now, flight E said:

i dont think i did wrong and since it may be too late....i will try to move on....but if she reaches out, I will keep guys posted. Thanks y'all... you wont know how much of a help you have been... its virtually a lifesaver  

If you don't think you did wrong, then don't engage with her further.  It will be a waste of time for both of you.

[flight E]

1 minute ago, basil67 said:

If you don't think you did wrong, then don't engage with her further.  It will be a waste of time for both of you.

i wont....even though i desperately want to...I sincerely dont think i did wrong...thanks basil67

[Wiseman2]

1 hour ago, flight E said:

 ... am just bloody scared of making a wrong move 

Contact her and invite her to see you. You'll know where you stand by how she responds. Why keep yourself guessing?

[flight E]

1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

Contact her and invite her to see you. You'll know where you stand by how she responds. Why keep yourself guessing?

thanks bro. I will be in her town next week. i will do that when am there......i guess am even scared of what she would say... but if its a break up....it is what it is.... there isnt much I can do

[S2B]

Why are you in her town next week? 
did you previously set up to see her?

if you don’t plan to continue seeing her - what’s the reason to see her again?

[flight E]

5 hours ago, S2B said:

Why are you in her town next week? 
did you previously set up to see her?

if you don’t plan to continue seeing her - what’s the reason to see her again?

Yea we had an previous arrangement that i will spend my birthday with her and i had already arrangement biz meetings to fit into the timeline...Also, A friend sent me stuff through her so i wont have a choice but to collect it from her

[flight E]

1 minute ago, flight E said:

Yea we had an previous arrangement that i will spend my birthday with her and i had already arrangement biz meetings to fit into the timeline...Also, A friend sent me stuff through her so i wont have a choice but to collect it from her

Also, i love this girl... I really dont want to make mistakes that seem logical correct but emotionally i will only make matters worse. If it wasnt for stuff i have with her, i would go her town and i still wont call her.. Cos i didnt pull away from her, she did

[S2B]

I think it’s a mistake to see her when she isn’t making effort for you.

do the business you need to do in her town - but there is no needs to see her.

[flight E]

Hi Y'all, just thought it wont be fair if I dont update you on how things went. I didnt call her. On the 6th day morning she called we talked for a while until I went off the phone to get to work. My observations are she was testing me. As crazy as some of these love coaches are, sometimes they are onto something cos I read somewhere that in situations like that you shouldnt call your girl and they were right. She seems more attracted than before and cant seem to wait for me to come see her. I havent bothered to ask her why the disappearing act, maybe I will find a way to do that when I see her. Thanks you all.