GoodVibess Posted July 25, 2023 Share Posted July 25, 2023 A guy asked for my snap first then I told him I don’t have it then he said what about your a number on a dating app. So I gave it to him and he said “Yo, it’s blank” I replied with “hey” and he left me on read 4 hours ago? If he’s not interested in texting me why bother texting to me begin with? Link to post Share on other sites
Kassieee Posted July 25, 2023 Share Posted July 25, 2023 (edited) What does he mean by "yo it's blank"? Your profile? Maybe he was using that as a conversation starter and you replying with "hey"...he just couldn't bother with you. Maybe he doesn't have much of an attention span. Edited July 25, 2023 by justaskingok Link to post Share on other sites
Author GoodVibess Posted July 25, 2023 Author Share Posted July 25, 2023 (edited) 2 minutes ago, justaskingok said: What does he mean by "yo it's blank"? Your profile? Maybe he was using that as a conversation starter and you replying with "hey"...he just couldn't bother with you. Maybe he doesn't have much of an attention. blank meant his name. Do I delete and unmatch him? What do I do and I always reply hey to other guys and they start asking how my days been or what i’m doing. So I don’t think I did anything wrong. Edited July 25, 2023 by GoodVibess Link to post Share on other sites
Kassieee Posted July 25, 2023 Share Posted July 25, 2023 Just now, GoodVibess said: blank meant his name. Do I delete and unmatch him? What do I do If he's on a dating app he probably has a lot of girls in his DM's, attention span not there. You have to stand out, say something interesting. If you care that much. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GoodVibess Posted July 25, 2023 Author Share Posted July 25, 2023 Just now, justaskingok said: If he's on a dating app he probably has a lot of girls in his DM's, attention span not there. You have to stand out, say something interesting. If you care that much. I don’t care that much i’m just confused. It’s been 4 hours double texting him would be desperate of me lol Link to post Share on other sites
Kassieee Posted July 25, 2023 Share Posted July 25, 2023 1 minute ago, GoodVibess said: I don’t care that much i’m just confused. It’s been 4 hours double texting him would be desperate of me lol Be patient, I think he was just touching base until he got time to text you again. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 25, 2023 Share Posted July 25, 2023 26 minutes ago, GoodVibess said: he said what about your a number on a dating app. So I gave it to him and he said “Yo, it’s blank” I replied with “hey” and he left me on read 4 hours ago? Please delete and block weirdos and timewasters asap. If after a few messages they are not suggesting to meet up for a breif coffee or meeting, they're wasting time. Please don't give your number to people that sound like scammers. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GoodVibess Posted July 25, 2023 Author Share Posted July 25, 2023 (edited) 5 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Please delete and block weirdos and timewasters asap. If after a few messages they are not suggesting to meet up for a breif coffee or meeting, they're wasting time. Please don't give your number to people that sound like scammers. He didn’t really sound like a scammer, all I replied was “hey” and he left me on open. I guess he was waiting for me to say something more? At this point texting him again would make me seem desperate I’m not sure. Edited July 25, 2023 by GoodVibess Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 25, 2023 Share Posted July 25, 2023 2 minutes ago, GoodVibess said: texting him again would make me seem desperate I’m not sure. If you are communicating through the app, there's absolutely no reason to ask for your social media or phone number when he could simply arrange meeting in person for coffee, whatever. Don't worry about looking "desperate", worry about suspicious behavior. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 25, 2023 Share Posted July 25, 2023 (edited) A single word greeting of "hey" is pretty low effort on your part. I'm not sure I'd respond to someone who sent me a single word response to a first text.... Edited July 25, 2023 by basil67 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ageless Wisdom23 Posted July 25, 2023 Share Posted July 25, 2023 He would Not be my type. "Yo" is unacceptable with me. And maybe he didn't care for the "Hey" neither. Not a match made in heaven.lol😋 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted July 25, 2023 Share Posted July 25, 2023 Intentions and actions can be difficult to interpret accurately through a couple short texts or online communication. Maybe he's not interested in texting back and forth and prefers the direct route by exchanging phone numbers since you don't have Snapchat. Then you replied with "hey." Meh... Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 1 hour ago, GoodVibess said: he said “Yo, it’s ....” At best, he doesn't seem like much of a conversationalist. Don't double text. He knows your contact info. Link to post Share on other sites
Ami1uwant Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 4 hours ago, GoodVibess said: A guy asked for my snap first then I told him I don’t have it then he said what about your a number on a dating app. So I gave it to him and he said “Yo, it’s blank” I replied with “hey” and he left me on read 4 hours ago? If he’s not interested in texting me why bother texting to me begin with? My translator app is broken 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 I think neither of you know knows how to communicate very well. It's all very uninspired. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 9 hours ago, GoodVibess said: A guy asked for my snap first then I told him I don’t have it then he said what about your a number on a dating app. So I gave it to him and he said “Yo, it’s blank” I replied with “hey” and he left me on read 4 hours ago? If he’s not interested in texting me why bother texting to me begin with? All you responded with is 'Hey'. You sound uninterested. Link to post Share on other sites
Liliana09 Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 11 hours ago, GoodVibess said: A guy asked for my snap first then I told him I don’t have it then he said what about your a number on a dating app. So I gave it to him and he said “Yo, it’s blank” I replied with “hey” and he left me on read 4 hours ago? If he’s not interested in texting me why bother texting to me begin with? This is the very reason why I don't give out my number so soon, some guys just like to get people's number for the sake of it. I bet he has a million other people on " read" , he probably just likes collecting numbers as a hobby .As he puts zero effort in. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 Well sure. We tend to not do something (i.e. not give out your phone number) when we've had bad experiences in the past. He asked for your phone number and after you sent it he said that it was blank in that you didn't give it to him. Did you not actually give out your telephone number? It's okay if you didn't. If you felt uncomfortable for instance exchanging numbers that early for safety reasons that's perfectly valid. That doesn't necessarily have to be based on prior negative experience but being selective. But it seems like you wanted to continue the conversation from what I gather since you're asking why he hasn't responded. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 (edited) 17 hours ago, Alpacalia said: he said that it was blank in that you didn't give it to him. She used the word blank instead of his name. He text her and announced himself. She just didn't want to use his real name. It has caused a little confusion. Edited July 27, 2023 by JTSW 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author GoodVibess Posted July 27, 2023 Author Share Posted July 27, 2023 (edited) I previously posted a question about a guy and this is the same guy. I texted him “If you’re interested in meeting, we can schedule a day to meet” he replied with “And I'm cool with that most definitely I want you to know with my work I I'm not aloud to be in my phone but I'll be done around 2 so I'll text you and we can talk more“ I replied with “Thanks for letting me know, sounds good” It is now 4pm and he hasn’t texted. Is it best to remove him? Edited July 27, 2023 by GoodVibess Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 (edited) I would. If he was really interested he would have snuck off the the toilet to keep texting you like anybody else would. Stop chasing. Edited July 27, 2023 by smackie9 Link to post Share on other sites
Kassieee Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 (edited) The same guy who left you on read? And didn't reply for hours? Did he end up texting back or you initiated a second text you initially didn't want to send because you were afraid to look desperate? I think you get to anxious and overthink. Patience. Edited July 27, 2023 by justaskingok Link to post Share on other sites
Author GoodVibess Posted July 27, 2023 Author Share Posted July 27, 2023 2 minutes ago, justaskingok said: The same guy who left you on read? And didn't reply for hours? Did he end up texting back or you initiated a second text you initially didn't want to send because you were afraid to look desperate? I think you get to anxious and overthink. Patience. He replied but we got into a small argument because we both had bad opening messages and our messages on the app weren’t good either. We apologized so we’re good now. I just don’t understand why lie about texting me if he’s not really interested. I rather have him leave me on seen or just not say anything at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GoodVibess Posted July 27, 2023 Author Share Posted July 27, 2023 7 minutes ago, smackie9 said: I would. If he was really interested he would have snuck off the the toilet to keep texting you like anybody else would. Stop chasing. Yeah that’s true, I’m definitely not gonna chase someone I’ve never met before. Or chasing in general isn’t something I do. I just don’t like being lied to is all. Link to post Share on other sites
Kassieee Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 1 minute ago, GoodVibess said: Yeah that’s true, I’m definitely not gonna chase someone I’ve never met before. Or chasing in general isn’t something I do. I just don’t like being lied to is all. Yeah I don't know why you're sweating this much over one guy on a texting app....when there's many guys out there. Link to post Share on other sites
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