NTT148 Posted November 8, 2005 Share Posted November 8, 2005 2 years ago i really liked this girl in my class, and i'm like 95% sure she liked me too, well that year was grad, and her family was going to europe 2 months earlier than when school was gonna end. so on her last day i decided to give her a teddy bear with a note saying how i felt about her. well my other friend on that day, she went to go say bye to her, and when she went, the girl i liked was telling her that she kinda liked me too and stuff. well the next year of school, we went to diff schools, and so i talked to her sometimes on msn, and when we did it was kinda awkward, we didn't talk about that day, and now this year, she changed schools to mine, and now i really want to have conversations with her, and get to know her more and stuff, but i dont' know what to say or ask, and im really shy; i think she's also really shy. we dont' have any classes together, and the only times i get to see her are in the hallways, where i just say hi or something, and that's it, i want to know what i can say to her or ask her and stuff, help me plz, also i think she feels a bit awkward becuase now she knows i like her and stuff. well it's been about 3 months at school already, and i don't know why, but all of a sudden she's starting to ignore me for the past 2 to 3 weeks; whenever i pass by she looks away from me, or whenever i try to say hi she just pretends not to hear me or she just suddenly starts talking with her friends. well, it could be that she thought i knew when her b-day was and was expecting soemthing from me, but i don't know when it is cuase she never told me or something, do girls get mad over this kind of thing? what should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
yngv Posted November 15, 2005 Share Posted November 15, 2005 Understand that high school was 20 years ago for me, so my take on the social aspects of school are dated. But there's one thing that remains the best policy: talking honestly. FIgure out a time when you two can get together away from friends, and ask her to talk (not ask her out). If she asks what about, say you'd just like to spend some time talking with her. If you get her one-on-one and talking openly you'll hopefully be able to clear the air. You can start out by asking her how she is, how's school, etc. but be prepared to discuss how you feel about her. Let her know that you miss her and the time you used to share together. Use your own words and be honest. Hopefully she'll extend to you the same courtesy. Link to post Share on other sites
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