NuevoYorko Posted August 3, 2023 Share Posted August 3, 2023 3 hours ago, justaskingok said: I don't "think" these men are interested, they tell me themselves they are. One of the guys...told me I'm bubbly that's why he liked me. But he's the opposite of me most of these guys are. More quiet type personalities. So why are you not dating ANY of the men? Also, just for the record, this thread is a perfect example of your trend of posting about guys being "into" you. Even if you are among the most beautiful, magnetic women to have graced the face of this planet "since the beginning of time," it's highly unlikely that a great many guys professed their love for you after you moved somewhere else or stopped talking to them. Why? Because most people simply do not do that. So I think you're probably exaggerating. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kassieee Posted August 3, 2023 Author Share Posted August 3, 2023 (edited) 49 minutes ago, NuevoYorko said: So why are you not dating ANY of the men? Also, just for the record, this thread is a perfect example of your trend of posting about guys being "into" you. Even if you are among the most beautiful, magnetic women to have graced the face of this planet "since the beginning of time," it's highly unlikely that a great many guys professed their love for you after you moved somewhere else or stopped talking to them. Why? Because most people simply do not do that. So I think you're probably exaggerating. I am dating, just not any of these men I'm posting about. I'm not sure why it's hard for people to believe that it's a common theme for guys to confess or tell me they like me after I'm out of sight. Its not unheard of. I think you're picturing an exaggeration of what I'm saying. I swear I'm not exaggerating. And keep in mind this happens periodically throughout time. Not all at once telling me this. Edited August 3, 2023 by justaskingok Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted August 3, 2023 Share Posted August 3, 2023 (edited) These men confessed to liking you after you moved and look how much time and energy you've invested in trying to figure out why. Men that you haven't even dated! That's a lot of energy and headspace with nothing to show for it. Why are you giving emotion over people that have not proved anything to you yet. Why are you giving them that? Yes, it is possible for men to tell a woman they like after the fact. But that's not what's going on here. What is going on is you being so hellbent on figuring out why it's happening that you've given them too much thought. That tells me that you're underlying motivation is something more. Maybe you're feeling a little insecure about yourself. Maybe you want validation. Maybe you're seeking attention or are scared to move on to the next chapter. All things are normal and understandable. Once you figure out and acknowledge why you're really seeking answers, you can then move on to finding actual solutions. Have you tried reaching out or talking to them to get answers? You could invite them to dinner or coffee and have a conversation. They don't live near you though, so maybe next time you're in the area reach out to them. That way, you can actually hear their thoughts instead of hypothetical guesses. Whatever you do, stop letting their inner thoughts control your peace of mind. Take care of yourself first. Edited August 3, 2023 by Alpacalia Link to post Share on other sites
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