Ipad/iPhone users - relationship query - floating box on homescreen

[Allperspectiveswelcome]

Hi,

Can anyone help. I was listening to music on my boyfriends ipad and I noticed on the home page that there was a floating box on the screen that had 4 names/contacts. My name along with 3 others. Are these names, people he has recently mentioned or the top people he messages? Can anyone shed some light? I don't use iphone/pad.

 

Also the next day when I was listening to music the floating box was no longer there, or it was but it is now just a weather box. Would he have changed this or how does it work?

 

I trust him fully but seeing it and then not seeing it has made me paranoid, has he removed it because he didn't want me to see....

[JTSW]

Nothing to worry about.

It's just the Assistive touch settings that have been turned on.

This can happen so easily by accident.

If there was something he didn't want you to see, he wouldn't let you use it to listen to music.

You are just paranoid.

Edited August 4, 2023 by JTSW

[JTSW]

24 minutes ago, Allperspectiveswelcome said:

I trust him fully

Clearly not.

 

[Wiseman2]

54 minutes ago, Allperspectiveswelcome said:

I trust him fully but seeing it and then not seeing it has made me paranoid, has he removed it because he didn't want me to see....

Unfortunately you'll have to ask him if you're on his devices. It does seem like there are chronic trust issues, particularly regarding his female buddies. Is this the same man?:

 

[JTSW]

27 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Unfortunately you'll have to ask him if you're on his devices.

I think her 'listening to music' is a bs excuse.

She's just checking his devices because she has paranoia and trust issues.

She can easily listen to music on her own phone/devices.

[Allperspectiveswelcome]

Thanks.

No, we both have YouTube live concerts on in the background when we are getting ready and this particular day it was on his ipad so that's why I had it. I only became paranoid when I noticed the next time that it was gone and started to worry.

Thanks tho.

[ExpatInItaly]

15 hours ago, Allperspectiveswelcome said:

I only became paranoid when I noticed the next time that it was gone and started to worry.

What else is going on in your relationship that this was your reaction to a random technical glitch?