JTSW Posted September 8, 2023 Share Posted September 8, 2023 8 hours ago, Keeves1 said: Questions: There will be my birthday soon (22nd november) and christmas and the new years. I don't know if Maria would congratulate me on my birthday but if she are then I'm just going to write "Thank you" and nothing more. The questions is: Should I send her a message saying "Merry Christmas" and "Happy new year"? Will that break the no contact rule? I don't think she will send you any messages and definitely don't send her any messages. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Keeves1 Posted September 8, 2023 Author Share Posted September 8, 2023 10 hours ago, S2B said: Work on your deficiencies for a solid year before you consider trying to partner up with someone again. some of the things you listed are basically selfish traits. Can you learn how to be kind AND thoughtful to others? if you can’t then you shouldn’t try partnering up with anyone. work on improving yourself. I say that kindly ❤️ @S2BI'm trying my best to work on the things that I need to be better at but to be honest I don't know HOW. I mean I don't have anyone to talk to since my parents are not helping much. Only people I talk to are my friends but I cannot ask them to help to get better can I? It's not their problem to worry about. I hope I can learn to be both kind and thoughtful to other. As of now I don't know yet. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Keeves1 Posted September 8, 2023 Author Share Posted September 8, 2023 10 hours ago, Gaeta said: @Keeves1 : search for a support group or ask your medical clinic if they know supports groups. Google: seperation/divorce support group near me and l'm sure you'll find something. Don't think of xmas, you'll cross that bridge when you get there. Concentrate on today. @Gaeta That is something that have not crossed my mind, Thanks you! 🙌 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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