Should I try to speak to her again?

[BeneficialTruth]

This story can be funny for someone, but so be it.

Short story: Hello, I'm a teenager. 3 months ago at school. I met a nice girl, she seemed to be interested in me, but after we walked she said she wasn't interested in me anymore, after a little quarrel I said her to go f##k herself, and she got insulted. Every time she sees me I can see the emotion I can't express, it's like an emotion of anger but not it, and she goes red. Perhaps it's only my misconception that she is interested in me, and I have a strong desire to try to communicate with her again(start speaking, invite her for a coffee). However, I think, she could do to me the same I did to her.

Longer story:

For context: (I'm 14, she is 15.)

It was an event in school where people should have been choosing a president of the school, I was a candidate, and she was a candidate(she is a bit older than me) and I won the election. She got angry and tried to prove that it wasn't fair, she lost. After some time, she became interested in me and she started trying to talk to me, I managed to get her insta and proposed some ideas for improving the school(as a president of the school)and she was interested. After some text talk when we got familiar with each other, I proposed to go like on a date with me and she agreed.

After the date(actually it wasn't pretty interesting:)), I kissed her on her cheek(nothing abnormal), that's all. After a few weeks I tried to go with her again, but she wasn't able to, and said that the next week it would be okay. After 3 times I tried to propose her to went with me she rejected(said she couldn't). I asked whether she was interested in me(It was a pretty silly question). She replied that we could not be more than friends and she said I'm not even a friend to her. It insulted me a little bit, I said that she is too old for me to become more than friends, and after a little quarrel, I said her to go f*** herself.

After a few weeks(it was summertime) I occasionally met her on the street, she was with her friends, she got red, and she looked like she was offended. The summertime ended. I see her every day at school and every time she sees me she goes red(it seems to me like this). And I sometimes catch her staring at me from the crowd. I feel like she is interested in communicating with me again. I want to start communicating with her again.

What are your thoughts about the situation and what do you guys recommend me to do? Should I do it, or I should forget the girl?

[stillafool]

I think she turns red when she sees you because she doesn't know what to expect.  If you like her why do you tell her to go F herself.  That will turn any girl off.  You said yourself that your date wasn't very interesting so she probably felt the same way and is in no hurry for a repeat.  You already drink coffee at 15?  If you're still interested in her approach her in a gentlemanly way and ask her to go to the movies or to McDonalds. Be nice.

[Gaeta]

How many times you think it's ok to tell a girl to F off? Zero times No matter how frustrated and offended you are.

She is not interested in you and you tell her to F off, then you wonder what's her problem! 

You need respect girls and respect when they say 'they're not interested'. Your reply should I have been *I understand* and you move on.

[Wiseman2]

3 hours ago, BeneficialTruth said:

, I said that she is too old for me to become more than friends, and after a little quarrel, I said her to go f*** herself.

She may be too old for you, that's true. Do you have older brothers or a good relationship with your dad or older men in your family?

Perhaps a few tips on dating and asking girls out could help.

For example you'll have to be more mature than name calling, getting frustrated, cursing, pulling ponytails and other more juvenile ways boys interact with girls.

If you like someone it's ok to ask them to do stuff together. If they're resistant or not interested, learn to walk away without being a sore loser.