lilmoma1973 Posted November 9, 2005 Share Posted November 9, 2005 I was talking to my mom today on the phone and she told me that her sister called to ask when my mom and her fiance was getting married.. My mom's sister called to tell my mom that till they got married she won't except them two as a couple!!My mom told her she didn't know when they would get married when they was ready they will.. My mom is 66yrs old and her fiance is 70yrs old they have been together for 10 yrs and he gave her a sapphire and diamond ring the christmas before last.. His family wasn't to happy and started causing problems saying that they shouldn't be living together it wasn't right!! Well it started putting doubt in her mind and she left him because she felt his family didn't like her and was causing major problems between them ..He wouldn't stand up to them and tell them it was his life and he was a grown man and he will marry who he wants!! She moved out of his home and got her a house and was being on her own and she liked it but something was missing !! She loved this man with all her heart and she was missing him... I would talk to him and he was miserable and i told him who cares what your kids think !! We love you and want you with my mom together and you make each other happy married or not that is your decision !! It has been a yr since she moved out and they still are together and he is fixing up the house and changing making it differnent so that when she moves back in it will be their home just like they want it.. I love him like he was my dad and treats my daughter like his own granddaughter he is a good man and wouldn't want no other man in my mom's life!! I love him like a dad and he treats me like a daughter, he will do anything in the world for me and my family or anyone else ... It pisses me off when people try to mess up a good thing because they aren't happy in their current relationship and they want to cause problems!!! My question is why should it matter if they are married or not to be excepted !! My dad died when i was 10 and his two wives are dead too !! Why do they have to marry ? They should be able to do what they want they old enough!! I would love to have the relationship my mom has with him !! Sorry so long too much to tell had to vent made me mad!! Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted November 9, 2005 Share Posted November 9, 2005 I would say that your moms sister needs to mind her own business. If your mom and her fiancee are happy with the way things are, then who is this woman or anyone else to judge? There are some people though, that feel if someone is not married after a period of time, then whats the point of even being together. Sounds like this is how your moms sister sees it. Tell your mom not to worry about her or anyone else and as long as they are happy thats what matters. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
Author lilmoma1973 Posted November 9, 2005 Author Share Posted November 9, 2005 Thanks Jade for the advice and i feel the same way ..My mom's sister isn't nothing but a high falutent b@tch anyways!! She is so mean to my mom only time she calls her to gossip!!! I think they will marry they probably would have had not everyone made such a big deal when he gave her the ring!!! I just know that a love that they have is very rare and they need to grab hold of it and not let noone come in between them again!!! I think they just need to mind their own dam% buisness and let them be!! Link to post Share on other sites
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