joel Posted November 10, 2005 Share Posted November 10, 2005 was talking to a gurl online-who said that one of her ex bf the richest one bought her a 350 fendi wallet , and when she goes shopping her other ex bfs have bought her items-not exactly sure what. this also other girl i talking to online-said her bf a painter gave her 100 dollars to spend to go shopping she said she wanted nike shoxs. i told the other girl this and shes like ah what only 100 dollars. lol is this normal behaviour for guys to do to girls give em money to shop and buy em things or is it jsut for some. ok guys have u ever dated or been wiht a gf were u spend and bought em stuff while shopping.i mean u guys go mall shopping to look around and she wanted this dress and u were like ah ok i buy it for u-lets say its 270 bucks-do u do it or do u say ah NO. or something like that do u buy girls stuff while u are shopping with em. do girls even expect this from a guy they are dating. and when do u give gifts to a girl during the time u are dating em-after the 5th date or what.... and what do u give em-not the richest guy. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted November 10, 2005 Share Posted November 10, 2005 and when do u give gifts to a girl during the time u are dating em-after the 5th date or what... Never (if you can get away with it). It's not about buying their love. If you're money, they'll stick with you no matter what. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted November 10, 2005 Share Posted November 10, 2005 I agree with Westernixer.. You can't buy love.. Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted November 10, 2005 Share Posted November 10, 2005 uch, i think i bought my ex more gifts than he bought me. my favorite gift was when one of the ex's bought me my favorite kind of licorice just because he knew I liked it. I guess $5 bought him my affection so I think I'm saying that I'm cheap. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted November 10, 2005 Share Posted November 10, 2005 $5 is cheap.. I will never forget going on vacation to disneyworld one year with my ex and I go to check out of the hotel and they tell me the bill for the room ( 4days ) was almost $12,000.. I said what ????????.. She had been charging dolls and teddy bears to the room ( it was the doll and teddy bear convention ).. I shut up and laid the plastic down... Went into counseling after that trip.. Link to post Share on other sites
Panhandler Posted November 10, 2005 Share Posted November 10, 2005 Girls that want things from you, are just using you for things, and don't really care about you, and think they are too good for you. There's a lot of girls out there who are pretty good looking, but they also think they deserve to be pampered by every man alive for their company. These girls are a joke! Plain and simple, they'll drop you for the next meal ticket, or gold ring when the time comes, and I'm sure are already sorting you in their deck. It's nice to buy gifts for a girl if the thought counts and you think she appreciates it. But if you are just throwing money at a wall to impress a girl or buy her appreciation, forget it. Only you would know what is appropriate for your relationship. Some girls have parents who are strict about who they see, and need fancy gifts to show that you are a secure thoughtful mate. But if it seems like a lot of money to you, it's too much.... Link to post Share on other sites
TUDOR Posted November 10, 2005 Share Posted November 10, 2005 A girl that is expecting expensive things from you is just using you. Don't fall for the BS. The girls that are pulling this sh*t, the only money you should be giving them is the money shot right in the face! Link to post Share on other sites
MakeMeBeautiful Posted November 10, 2005 Share Posted November 10, 2005 i never feel comfortable accepting money or expensive gifts from guys. i have girl friends who do not have a problem doing it. they will actually ask guys to buy them things. the most thoughtful gift i have ever gotten from a guy was for valentine's day. i told him a story before several months before we started seeing each other. the story was about how i asked my ex to stop buying me expensive gifts and to go out and buy me a rose bush called angelface because i had a coworker whose husband bought one for her on their first anniversary together. after 20 yrs of marriage she still had the rose bush. my ex went out and bought a rose bush but not angelface. angelface is a lavender rose. he ended up getting a red rose bush. so on valentines day the guy surprised me with the correct rose bush. he had remembered my story. my ex thought the more expensive the gifts the better. our first christmas together he bought me: gold bracelets ($500), gucci watch ($495), guess jacket ($150). if he only knew that a $10 rose bush could make me happy. Link to post Share on other sites
bunnzy Posted November 10, 2005 Share Posted November 10, 2005 I dont like it when bf buy expensive things for me. My fiance wanted to buy me $300 sunnies, but i found some just as good for $30 and got him to get me them. Hes great though. He buys me flowers all the time, which i love. He got me the most Gorgeous diamond ring, i am so in love with the ring! But i love him more!!! He buys me turkish delight (the best!) and if i mention i am craving a slurpee on a hot day he'll get one for me. He spent HEAPS on the proposal. I got acrylic nails on, a spa pedicure, a limo ride everywhere, a hair salon treatment where i could have anything i wanted, a facial and makeup lesson, and a really really nice thai dinner. And the ring on top of that. My mum said it will be a once off thing, but he told me he wants to spoil me often. It is my birthday next tuesday, so i'm wondering what he's going to get me. Link to post Share on other sites
glittergurl Posted November 11, 2005 Share Posted November 11, 2005 i mean u guys go mall shopping to look around and she wanted this dress and u were like ah ok i buy it for u-lets say its 270 bucks-do u do it or do u say ah NO. WHA? What guy would pay $270 for a dress? Especially if it's JUST a girlfriend and not even his wife (yet). I always felt very uncomfortable when my boyfriends spent money for me; I always felt like I owed them something, and I hated it. My husband is perfect. He's down to earth and realistic. If I wanted a $350 wallet, he'd say: "Are you f?cking crazy?" The funny thing is; we could afford it all. But I like the fact that we don't throw it all away, and that he doesn't feel like he has to. We love each other for who we are, and how our life is together And that, my dear, has got nothing to do with brands. Link to post Share on other sites
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