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1 hour ago, basil67 said:

Wait...you met a woman in Oct last year, when you were 27yo. Now you are 32yo   Is this the same woman?  

I find it odd that you don't know your age.  And why is cigar smoking featuring in both stories?   🤨

 

I genuinely don't know what you're talking about. This is my first time here. 😐 If someone with a same name posted a story here with this acct then something isn't right

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56 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

That's how 21 years old are. They're impulsive, sassy, and think everything is about them. Usually 32 yo are not interested in 21 yo as they still lack maturity. 

I'm learning that now. Honestly, I've been thinking if possibly just hooking up with her and stay as such. fwb

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2 hours ago, basil67 said:

Yes, you did do stuff wrong:

Making statements about what others "should" or "need" to do will get up people's noses because nobody likes being told what to do.    They need to make up their own minds.  

Then when she gave her feedback, she did not ask your opinion or advice.  It was a statement, not a question.  And not only did you give your opinion and advice, you delivered it in a patronising manner.   Even your explanation to us "I meant by that she is young is that she's just now starting to experience the world compared to someone like me" sounds patronising.  

At any rate, it sounds like she's picked up on your romantic vibes and has just made it abundantly clear that she's not interested in a relationship with you.  And to be honest, given that you don't see her as your emotional and intellectual equal, she certainly should stick to boys who are her own age

 

 

Why are you gaslighting me?

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20 minutes ago, GreatOne90 said:

Why are you gaslighting me?

Why did you lie about your age?
 

And if you don’t want to hear an answer, don’t ask the question 

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ExpatInItaly

You are foolish to think this messy young lady is worth dating or sleeping with. 

She is behaving badly, and at your age, you should know better.  For all your espousing about love and how men and women "should" operate, you really can't see the truth about this girl? 

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MsJayne

She cracked the darks because she’s apparently mature enough for you to be pursuing her but immature enough that you think she needs life experience. Probably came across as condescending. 

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8 hours ago, GreatOne90 said:

I genuinely don't know what you're talking about. This is my first time here. 😐 If someone with a same name posted a story here with this acct then something isn't right

Here's your other threads.  You've been a member here since 2015

 

 

 

 

 

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13 hours ago, GreatOne90 said:

No. I have no idea what you're talking about.

You do realize that everyone's post history is public, right....? 😂

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