Lulu99 Posted November 11, 2023 Share Posted November 11, 2023 (edited) I am friends with my male friend but i have also have feelings for him but i think i will just stay friends with him..i do not want to ruin anything Edited November 11, 2023 by Lulu99 make it shorter Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted November 11, 2023 Share Posted November 11, 2023 What's with friends wanting to sleep with each other. Can no one be just friends? Stop with the sleep overs and funny pictures. I don't know, I've never develop feelings for my male friends. Just enjoy the friendship, don't ruin it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted November 11, 2023 Share Posted November 11, 2023 7 minutes ago, Lulu99 said: . He has told me when I was at his place with a family member that I could have a sleepover. How long have you been friends? How old is he? At best, he may be offering a FWB situation. Please don't tell him how you feel. If he's not asking you out, he's not interested in dating. Spare yourself the headaches and heartaches and date men who are clearly interested in you and ask you out. Pics of beds and suggestions of sleeping over, seems more like he knows you're into him so he's playing with you to see if you're down for no-strings sex. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 12, 2023 Share Posted November 12, 2023 If you are comfortable being an orbiter fine but if you like your friend as more than a friend I think you owe it to yourself to find out. You may lose him as a friend temporarily but think of what you might gain. To tell how he feels, look at how he acts. Does he sit close? Do you two share prolonged eye contact? Spend some more time with him & eventually work up to asking things like what he's looking for a in a romantic partner and / or has he ever wondered whether you two could become more. If he likes you too he will see that opening. If he is horrified or laughs it off, then you know this is no go. Link to post Share on other sites
AmyHershaw Posted November 12, 2023 Share Posted November 12, 2023 On 11/11/2023 at 2:05 AM, Lulu99 said: I am friends with my male friend but i have also have feelings for him but i think i will just stay friends with him..i do not want to ruin anything I've been in this situation before, it didn't work out for me, but it does for some people. Does he reciprocate these feelings? You also have to differentiate between him lusting after you or actually having a romantic interest in you. Friends with benefits can become complicated and ruin friendships, especially when those feelings get stronger, but the other person doesn't feel the same and then ends up dating someone else. I'd say if you have doubts then avoid it. There will always be someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
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