should i just go?

[Tdog]

I will try and make a long story short. I was with a guy for 16 years, lived together for 8. We had a pretty volatile relationship. We have a 5 year old daughter. He was a good dad, just not nice to me. We needed to seperate, no doubt. I met this guy 14 years older than me, at first we were just friends, I talked, he listened, he insisted on helping me financially, before you knew it we were having an affair. Actually he seduced me when I was intoxicated, but I let it happen, so I don't blame him. I needed someone, with his financial help I left my childs father, got an apartment, within 6 months he wanted me to move in w/ him, I was relunctant, but I did it, He was so smitten and I didn't want him to go away. 9 months later we were married, i tried to call it off twice but he was heartbroken and plans were made, stuff was paid for so I did it, even though I wasn't and I am not over my ex. My husband and I don't really have anything in common-at all. I moved out once, but went back after 2 months because he took my car away(in his name) and I was having a hard time making it on my own. I miss my ex, I want to run my own life (husband is a bit controlling), I am scared to leave because I don't want to hurt him, my daughter and I am scared of being a poor single mom. Help!!