Mizz Layta Posted January 25 Share Posted January 25 I finally deleted his number since I found out he got with the girl he told me not worry about within a month of leaving me.They have been together for 6 months now. Part of me was still holding out hope but realized it's time to move on so i deleted his number. He must have figured it out on WhatsApp since i set my profile pic to contacts only. Since then he doesn't acknowledge me and looks hurt whenever i see him around since we have the same social cycle. I don't understand why he cares since he is with another girl and would give me one word answers when I reached out..before i found out I know it doesn't matter but what gives? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted January 25 Share Posted January 25 I don't see any actual evidence that he is mad you deleted his number. It sounds like you are making assumptions without any real evidence that it's true. I think you are projecting when you say he "looks hurt" when you see him. You want him to be hurt, because that would mean he still cares in some way - but that doesn't mean your guess is correct. If anything, he is keeping his distance from you because he feels guilty for hurting you and also because he doesn't want to give you false hope. There is no reason for him to acknoweldge you anymore, to be very blunt. And it's better that he doesn't. It appears you are still hanging on to hope, but it's time to let go. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Acacia98 Posted January 25 Share Posted January 25 (edited) 5 hours ago, Mizz Layta said: I know it doesn't matter but what gives? You may be wrong, you know? But assuming you're right, it's an ego thing. He doesn't want to be with you, but he wants you to continue thinking highly of him. Edited January 25 by Acacia98 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 25 Share Posted January 25 His ego got stroked thinking about you pining away for him. There's a song by Janet Jackson: I Can't Get Over You Getting Over Me Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 25 Share Posted January 25 11 hours ago, Mizz Layta said: . Since then he doesn't acknowledge me and looks hurt whenever i see him around since Sorry this happened. You made the right call ending it. Please delete and block him and all his people from ALL your contact lists, devices, social media and messaging apps. In social settings, try to avoid him by being busy and having fun with others. Ignore how "hurt he looks" it's not a sign he wants to get back together or stay friends. Please focus on others so you barely notice him at all. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 25 Share Posted January 25 11 hours ago, Mizz Layta said: I finally deleted his number since I found out he got with the girl he told me not worry about within a month of leaving me.They have been together for 6 months now. Part of me was still holding out hope but realized it's time to move on so i deleted his number. He must have figured it out on WhatsApp since i set my profile pic to contacts only. Since then he doesn't acknowledge me and looks hurt whenever i see him around since we have the same social cycle. I don't understand why he cares since he is with another girl and would give me one word answers when I reached out..before i found out I know it doesn't matter but what gives? I don't know why you care what he thinks. Why should he acknowledge you? How do you know he even cares about you at all? If you stop trying to talk to him, you won't get one word answers. This all seems like hopeful thinking on your part while he's involved in his 6 month relationship with his new girl and moving on. You should too. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted January 25 Share Posted January 25 He's mad because he no longer has control over you. By deleting his number, you have shown that you are moving on and not waiting around for him. Good for you for taking control of your own life. Link to post Share on other sites
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