Author SLB2022 Posted February 10, 2024 Author Share Posted February 10, 2024 13 minutes ago, Alpacalia said: LOL. Me too! 😂 I'm just saying, when someone cancels a first date, and while I understand you were sick and all, it just shows a lack of interest whether that is your intention or not. So, if someone cancels a first date with me, they would have to make some sort of effort to make up for it or show that they are still interested. Otherwise, I am not going out of my way to reschedule or pursue the date. Of course, if the person has a valid reason for canceling and makes an effort to reschedule or expresses continued interest, then I may be more understanding and willing to give them another chance. But if it becomes a pattern or they don't show any effort, then I will not waste my time further. It's just poor form to cancel a first date. Ah yeah I totally agree I would have been annoyed that the first date was cancelled so that’s why I then took the initiative to get it organised again with the time date place etc and he was the one that cancelled, but I feel I have my answer anyway that’s what I meant by I won’t be trying to contact him again lol dating shouldn’t be this much of a hassle haha 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted February 10, 2024 Share Posted February 10, 2024 (edited) 4 hours ago, SLB2022 said: Ah yeah I totally agree I would have been annoyed that the first date was cancelled so that’s why I then took the initiative to get it organised again with the time date place etc and he was the one that cancelled, but I feel I have my answer anyway that’s what I meant by I won’t be trying to contact him again lol dating shouldn’t be this much of a hassle haha Yeah, I definitely understand the need for flexibility and communication in dating. In any case, I don't think you're being too harsh with moving on from this guy. Edited February 10, 2024 by Alpacalia 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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