user9991 Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 HI 3 weeks ago I had casual hook up with a girl she was happy to meet me etc because I look good and she is is exiced about that bla bla bla long story short after sex I performed on her oral lol and after sex she instantly blocked me and I asked her Thats why you removed me from social and blocked me , just tell me if you have hsv and you told me you dont have , and she [Lool I dont have herpes wirdo I just dont like you ur weird and old and gross bye] guys what you think its common acting like that souds fishy and walking std dont you think so ? Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 Why do you want anything to do with someone calling you weird and pretending to be 12? I think you should move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 Why did you assume she gave you herpes? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 52 minutes ago, user9991 said: Lool I dont have herpes I u wirdo i just dont like you , you weird old and gross bye. despite of contacting with her from different number she pretends she is 12 y old Is this an escort? Delete and block her. She doesn't seem to like you. Why not find decent women to date and take better precautions with your sexual health if you are going to cruise around for random sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author user9991 Posted January 28, 2024 Author Share Posted January 28, 2024 (edited) Ohh no no she is not an escort it was my second time and last time , Now I have anxiety , I just [messed] up and consequence are high I woried not to got hsv2 on my mouth tongue so I have to do some check ups Edited January 28, 2024 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language Link to post Share on other sites
Author user9991 Posted January 28, 2024 Author Share Posted January 28, 2024 8 minutes ago, Alpacalia said: Why did you assume she gave you herpes? Because I can feel kind of strange things going on mild bruning tongue left side right side palate also idk what to say it Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 (edited) Hsv 2 don't transfer on the mouth unless you are a very sick person with a very weak immune system. Actually there are no recorded cases of hsv2 on the mouth. I know l have hsv2 for years. Edited January 28, 2024 by Gaeta Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 (edited) You probably have hsv 1 and you don't know. If you have it then she's the one at risk of developping genital hsv1. Edited January 28, 2024 by Gaeta Link to post Share on other sites
Author user9991 Posted January 28, 2024 Author Share Posted January 28, 2024 1 minute ago, Gaeta said: Hsv 2 don't transfer on the mouth unless you are a very sick person with a very weak immune system. Actually there are no recorded cases of hsv2 on the mouth. I know l have hsv2 for years. I got but ghsv1 so that's why I dont really want to pick up it on my mouth by performing oral on her Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 1 minute ago, user9991 said: Because I can feel kind of strange things going on mild bruning tongue left side right side palate Please take better care of yourself and your sexual safety. It's not just HSV, there's a ton of stuff from oral. Go to a clinic for a checkup and appropriate information about STDs. There's no point accusing ransom hookups of anything when you yourself are not careful. https://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/stdfact-stdriskandoralsex.htm Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 2 minutes ago, user9991 said: I got but ghsv1 so that's why I dont really want to pick up it on my mouth by performing oral on her Who has hsv1? And where? Link to post Share on other sites
Author user9991 Posted January 28, 2024 Author Share Posted January 28, 2024 Just now, Gaeta said: Who has hsv1? And where? I got down there but never had an ob , I see in 2 weeks what I have what not... Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 80% of population by age 40 all carry hsv1 on mouth. It's mostly transmission as children being kissed by a bunch of aunties and uncles. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 (edited) 4 minutes ago, user9991 said: I got down there but never had an ob , I see in 2 weeks what I have what not... Hsv1 down there goes dormant because it's their least favorite spot. It's normal you may never have an ob. You may have hsv1 on the mouth but that has nothing to do with her. Edited January 28, 2024 by Gaeta Link to post Share on other sites
Author user9991 Posted January 28, 2024 Author Share Posted January 28, 2024 But im talking about hsv2 which can be passed on mouth while somebody has an ob Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 2 minutes ago, user9991 said: But im talking about hsv2 which can be passed on mouth while somebody has an ob Like l said, there is no record of hsv2 on mouth. If by any chances you are one of the RARE people infected on mouth that will be you're only ob and it will go dormant. If you give oral sex to someone with an outbreak then you have to accept the consequences. Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 2 hours ago, user9991 said: HI 3 weeks ago I had casual hook up with a girl she was happy to meet me etc because I look good and she is is exiced about that bla bla bla long story short after sex I performed on her oral lol and after sex she instantly blocked me and I asked her Thats why you removed me from social and blocked me , just tell me if you have hsv and you told me you dont have , and she [Lool I dont have herpes wirdo I just dont like you ur weird and old and gross bye] guys what you think its common acting like that souds fishy and walking std dont you think so ? No it's not uncommon at all for people to immediately cut off communication after a hook up even if they enjoyed themselves. Because for many who willingly go into a hookup situation sex is all they are after. For better luck getting a second date after sex happened on the first it's best to not say it's a hookups situation beforehand. If sex happens than great but for many people if they go into the date acknowledging it is a hookup they are far more likely to just say have a nice life after it is over. Link to post Share on other sites
introverted1 Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 The way to tell if your partner has an STD is to ask them to be tested and show you the results. You seem to be inferring that this woman blocked you because she has HSV. She could have blocked you for any number of reasons. And if she hadn't blocked you, that wouldn't mean she doesn't have HSV, either. Link to post Share on other sites
Rider on the Storm Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 (edited) OP, if she has her herpes treated and stops pretending that she is a 12 year old girl that finds you "gross", would you be interested in trying to pursue a serious relationship with this person? Just curious if you see some potential here. Edited January 28, 2024 by Rider on the Storm Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 1 hour ago, user9991 said: Because I can feel kind of strange things going on mild bruning tongue left side right side palate also idk what to say it So you get it get checked out by a healthcare provider to determine the cause of your symptoms and determine the appropriate treatment. Don't go around accusing people of having herpes without proof, it is not fair or accurate. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author user9991 Posted January 28, 2024 Author Share Posted January 28, 2024 1 hour ago, Alpacalia said: So you get it get checked out by a healthcare provider to determine the cause of your symptoms and determine the appropriate treatment. Don't go around accusing people of having herpes without proof, it is not fair or accurate. Yes im going tomorrow for check up and I will do blood work on the side additionaly idk what is it , I texted her once again from different number and she said she does not have any std because she tested herself form evrything except hsv as its not mandatory well I will see soon what is going on Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 (edited) 19 minutes ago, user9991 said: Yes im going tomorrow for check up and I will do blood work on the side additionaly idk what is it , I texted her once again from different number and she said she does not have any std because she tested herself form evrything except hsv as its not mandatory well I will see soon what is going on An hsv blood work need to be done at least 2-3 months after infection otherwise you will have a false negative. The only way to test if you have it is to test if you have antibodies. That demands a delay. If you have blisters these can be tested with a swab. Like you said you only feel weird, you don't have blisters, that's not enough to be tested. Edited January 28, 2024 by Gaeta Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 4 hours ago, user9991 said: and after sex she instantly blocked me and I asked her... If she blocked you, how were you able to contact her? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 (edited) 3 hours ago, user9991 said: But im talking about hsv2 which can be passed on mouth while somebody has an ob What is an "ob"? Please go to a clinic/physician. Please describe your history, symptoms and concerns to them and they determine which tests are appropriate. You don't do à la carte blood work on yourself. Please leave this woman alone and stop contacting her from different numbers. She has her own doctors she can consult and she wants nothing to do with you and your false accusations. Edited January 28, 2024 by Wiseman2 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted January 28, 2024 Share Posted January 28, 2024 8 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: What is an "ob"? Outbreak 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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