How do I improve my relationship?

[O_Victor]

I have this girl that I like. I've known her for about a year. I can't meet her often in weekdays, but we chat almost everyday (short chat, mostly about games and campus life). But I feel that I can't ask her to hang out on weekend bc I feel that we're not that close yet, and she lives in the next town over. What should I do to improve this relationship?

[Alpacalia]

If you can't meet during the week or weekends then just connect with her as you've been doing. Maybe after a few weeks of that you can segue into meeting to study or work on a project together.

[Wiseman2]

26 minutes ago, O_Victor said:

 we chat almost everyday (short chat, mostly about games and campus life). But I feel that I can't ask her to hang out on weekend bc I feel that we're not that close yet, and she lives in the next town over. 

Do you both go to the same university? How often do you see each other in person?  If you are interested in her please invite her for a date. You can keep it casual and simple so you can get a better feel for things. 

[O_Victor]

16 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Do you both go to the same university? How often do you see each other in person?  If you are interested in her please invite her for a date. You can keep it casual and simple so you can get a better feel for things. 

Yes, but we're in a different faculty, sometimes we met 1 or 2 times a week, and sometimes not even once a week. Thanks for the advice.

[O_Victor]

29 minutes ago, Alpacalia said:

If you can't meet during the week or weekends then just connect with her as you've been doing. Maybe after a few weeks of that you can segue into meeting to study or work on a project together.

Thanks for the advice

[Weezy1973]

1 hour ago, O_Victor said:

But I feel that I can't ask her to hang out on weekend bc I feel that we're not that close yet, and she lives in the next town over. What should I do to improve this relationship?

Ask her to hang out on weekends anyways. Or ask her out on a date. You’ve known her for a year; what are you waiting for? First, she could like you back and was just waiting for you to make a move. Or second, she doesn’t like you romantically and you can move on from your crush. Either way, a good outcome (although the rejection will hurt for a short time). 

[d0nnivain]

You absolutely can ask her to hang out on the weekend.  You don't have to be emotionally close to ask.  You ask so that you can spend time together, to get to know each other so you can develop that emotional closeness. 

Dates aren't the goal / final.  Dates are the way you build a relationship.  They are the 1st step, not the last. 

[O_Victor]

3 hours ago, Weezy1973 said:

Ask her to hang out on weekends anyways. Or ask her out on a date. You’ve known her for a year; what are you waiting for? First, she could like you back and was just waiting for you to make a move. Or second, she doesn’t like you romantically and you can move on from your crush. Either way, a good outcome (although the rejection will hurt for a short time). 

 

2 hours ago, d0nnivain said:

You absolutely can ask her to hang out on the weekend.  You don't have to be emotionally close to ask.  You ask so that you can spend time together, to get to know each other so you can develop that emotional closeness. 

Dates aren't the goal / final.  Dates are the way you build a relationship.  They are the 1st step, not the last. 

Thankss