BGguy Posted February 17 Share Posted February 17 (edited) A while back, I started dating a woman who I met online who lives about a mile away. We had 4 dates (all which went very well) before I met her parents when they were home at the time I picked her up for a 5th date. I'm an electrician by trade, and I couldn't help notice that her house (actually her parents' house) needed some electrical updates. New service panel, GFCI's, among other things. In conversation with her father, I offered to do the work at material-cost only (no labor). He declined and chose to leave everything as-is. I took offense to that. After that date, I ghosted her. Edited February 17 by BGguy Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 17 Share Posted February 17 Sorry this happened. Unfortunately even though you meant well, it was a bit over the boundaries to analyze their home and electrical system. Sadly it could come across as a sales pitch. Do you like this woman or do you think it's not recoverable? Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted February 17 Share Posted February 17 42 minutes ago, BGguy said: He declined and chose to leave everything as-is. I took offense to that. After that date, I ghosted her. Whaaat? Ghosted her because her father declining electrical services? Why was that so offensive for you? Link to post Share on other sites
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