nwk418 Posted February 18, 2024 Share Posted February 18, 2024 Please help, I dunno what can I do next.😔My “gf” has been ignoring me since 14th Feb. I am 29 yo and my gf is 28. We met at the school that we previously work together. We dated for almost 3 years. At first, I felt that her personality and behavior were not compatible with mine, because she not really liked going out for a date, except dinning sometimes, but slowly I began to accept her and love her more and more. Although I like outdoor activities, she just liked staying at home watching movies and resting on the bed. In our relationship, I felt frustrated and sad sometimes because she said she wouldn’t get married with me nor having children in the future. She never brought me to meet her family or friends, but she came to my home and stay overnight every week so she already met my parents for so many times. I remember few times that she said her parents have higher standards and they will not accept me, that really hurts me. 1 yr ago, she found out I flirt with other girls online and wanted to break up with me. I apologized and begged her to stay with me and our relationship kept going on. We also had sexual collaboration issue which I wanted to have sex more often while she just wanted once a week due to tiredness and pain. But before she ignoring me, we tried out lubricant during sex and she said the pain was not that bad anymore and willing to have more. I went to jail for 5 months because I did something bad and before that, she said she didn’t know whether she will wait or not, and would make decision after my release. But starting from late December, she stopped picking up my calls and seeing me. I missed her soooo bad and really wanted to find out what happened and her decision. I just got released from jail this week. The first thing I did was contact her immediately, but I found out she block my number on the phone call, but NOT blocking me on the IM app. So I sent multiple messages to express my understanding and if she could give me another chance to get back together. She just replied she is deciding whether break up with me or not, but I haven’t received any answer since. I tried to call her today and found out she unblocked my number but didn’t picking up the phone. Few hours later, she blocked my phone call again… I’m really emotionally overwhelmed, because I feel like I cannot lose her and I really love her, wanting to have a future with her. What can I do now? She blocked my phone call and not responding to my message, I’m sure she didn’t block me on the IM app. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 18, 2024 Share Posted February 18, 2024 If she blocked you, it's best to leave her alone. Please focus on your release and getting your life back in order. Link to post Share on other sites
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