whereismylifegoing Posted November 11, 2005 Share Posted November 11, 2005 somebody freaking shoot me.......my ex calls me all the time now, wanting to know what's going in my life. i tell her NOTHING! but i did call her on her birthday to wish her a crappy one....get it! crappybirthday! (that is so lame). anyways.......all the people that she was hanging out with ditched her on her birthday and i was the only one hanging out with her. i'm starting to think that i made a mistake by calling her because she came to the bar i was hanging out in and was all bent out of shape. so we talked and had a good time and i didn't sleep with her. even though she was clingy and all, i had to shoo her away. but then she called me two days later when i was in atlantic city and started with the questions......"is your girlfriend there?" "are you seeing anybody?" "are there any girls there?". so again i led her to believe what she was saying, while i lost $500.00 to some old fart at the poker table that was making fun of me. i think she thinks i'm seeing somebody but i don't tell her nothing. i let her believe what she wants. fast forward.................she calls the following day to go to the movies and my dumb ass says "OK!" only because i had nothing to do later that night. so things went good again, laughing and having a good time. i'm not sure what her intentions are but i really think that she wants to get back together and doesn't want to get back together. i think i should ask her and stop f***ing around with these games. P.S. i just bought a new audi a4! i'm so happy i don't need a girl friend cause my car is so cool. it loves me back! Link to post Share on other sites
J dub Posted November 11, 2005 Share Posted November 11, 2005 >my ex calls me all the time now, wanting to know what's going in my life. i tell her NOTHING! how about you dont say ANYTHING? As in dont talk to her. WHHHHYYY ARE YOU SPEAKING W. her still?! > but i did call her on her birthday to wish her a crappy one....get it! crappybirthday! (that is so lame). You called her. You called HER. You.called.her. STOP IT ALREADY >all the people that she was hanging out with ditched her on her birthday Hm, a sign perhaps? >and i was the only one hanging out with her. That mustve made you feel special, everyone else ditched her so she resulted to going out with you. Must make you warm and fuzzy all over huh? >i'm starting to think that i made a mistake by calling her Yup. >because she came to the bar i was hanging out in and was all bent out of shape. so we talked and had a good time and i didn't sleep with her. Thank god. >i think she thinks i'm seeing somebody but i don't tell her nothing. Ok.... >she calls the following day to go to the movies and my dumb ass says "OK!" why do u call yourself a dumbass? You seem to already know the issue, you just wont admit to it. > only because i had nothing to do later that night. I'd rather sit at home and watch blind date than go out with a girl who dumped me for someone else. >so things went good again, laughing and having a good time. i'm not sure what her intentions are friends. thats what. >but i really think that she wants to get back together and doesn't want to get back together. um, what? >i think i should ask her and stop f***ing around with these games. or you could forget her all together and just move on already. >P.S. i just bought a new audi a4! i'm so happy i don't need a girl friend cause my car is so cool. it loves me back! Sweet, now go find a cute girl to ride in it with you who loves u and doesnt love SCREWING w. you. Also, you should really read this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t74674/ Link to post Share on other sites
blue16 Posted November 11, 2005 Share Posted November 11, 2005 Well atleast she is contacting you...that's a good thing, right? Although, I still think you're being too leniant with your stance. The more you keep hanging around her as her girly friend, the less likely you will get the desired outcome. Be firm on your position, that unless she says she wants you back, you aren't gonna spend time with her. As long as you continue to accept her invitations and hang out with her in a casual manner, she isn't going to come around. But, if you don't want her back since you got other stuff going on (including your new Audi) then all the power to ya PS - lol J-Dub posted 1 minute before me, that lurker Link to post Share on other sites
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