Alpacalia Posted February 29, 2024 Share Posted February 29, 2024 Well, if you asked her out in that month that you spoke and she couldn't commit because of having a bunch of kids around... I actually don't think it's likely if someone can't meet up in one month that they will be willing to meet up again in 18 months. But you're the best qualified to know what went down because you're the one who was there during those phone conversations. Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted February 29, 2024 Share Posted February 29, 2024 Why don't you take it seriously when you've been BLOCKED? Look, seany25: Blocking is done for a reason: the person does NOT WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU. And this happens to you over and over? 🥺 Respect it. This is bordering on refusing to accept that "NO means NO." Come on. Yes, I realize this is falling on deaf ears. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted February 29, 2024 Share Posted February 29, 2024 33 minutes ago, seany25 said: I imagine there was no malice in her blocking me If there was no malice, then she's an appallingly rude person. @seany25 you'd do well to stop digging around in the past Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 29, 2024 Share Posted February 29, 2024 It is very unlikely she blocked you just because she was busy. I realize this is what you are telling yourself so you can find permission to contact her anyway, but it just isn't that plausible. She might have started dating someone else or maybe you did indeed do or say something that turned her off. Please don't make yourself look desperate by messaging her now. She will probably not be happy to hear form you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
FredEire Posted February 29, 2024 Share Posted February 29, 2024 I have to say I'd somewhat disagree with others on here about the blocking in that block and/or delete is somewhat normal in today's dating world when something fizzles out, even if it wasn't due to any kind of conflict. I agree with Basil that it's pretty bad manners, but it's been normalised to burn bridges quickly and move on the the next person as soon as possible. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted February 29, 2024 Share Posted February 29, 2024 Whatever her reason for blocking you, it is a pretty clear signal that she does not want to hear from you again. Please respect that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted February 29, 2024 Share Posted February 29, 2024 7 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: It is very unlikely she blocked you just because she was busy. I don't think it has to be done out of malice - people block other people generally, at least as far as I know, when they think the other person will not respect "I'm sorry I'm not feeling it" or "turns out this is not a good time for me to date, so bye" type of thing. Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted February 29, 2024 Share Posted February 29, 2024 On 2/28/2024 at 9:10 AM, seany25 said: I'm also not out of options. I hooked up with a girl at the weekend and we had sex in my car after matching a few days earlier. This is your idea of a good dating life.... you had sex in your car with some woman you had met days earlier? Why are you having sex in your car at all, at age 37? This is the behavior of an immature teenager. The common denominator in all your dating struggles is you. Did you ever go to therapy or are you still making excuses? 1 2 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted February 29, 2024 Share Posted February 29, 2024 6 hours ago, NuevoYorko said: I don't think it has to be done out of malice - people block other people generally, at least as far as I know, when they think the other person will not respect "I'm sorry I'm not feeling it" or "turns out this is not a good time for me to date, so bye" type of thing. Yeah, I think that if a block is used, it should be because your polite ending was not accepted. Link to post Share on other sites
introverted1 Posted February 29, 2024 Share Posted February 29, 2024 (edited) Why did you post this question if you didn't want to hear and take the advice? You're determined to see her previous rejection as something different than it was, so go ahead and contact her. Let the chips fall where they may. Perhaps she would like to have sex in your car. That kind of romantic gesture is hard to say no to. Edited February 29, 2024 by introverted1 3 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted February 29, 2024 Share Posted February 29, 2024 3 hours ago, ShyViolet said: This is your idea of a good dating life.... you had sex in your car with some woman you had met days earlier? Why are you having sex in your car at all, at age 37? This is the behavior of an immature teenager. The common denominator in all your dating struggles is you. Did you ever go to therapy or are you still making excuses? Indeed. @seany25 Was this an attempt to recreate the car sex you had with the woman you met over Xmas? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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