autumn leaves Posted November 12, 2005 Share Posted November 12, 2005 we've been dating for over 2 years and he said he wants to be married after I get out of school (which is about 1.5 years) so is it normally something males hint at or do they often catch you by surprise? Since broad generalizatios about this kind of thing is impossible letting me know your situation or others you know is good enough. thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
slubberdegullion Posted November 12, 2005 Share Posted November 12, 2005 If the dude is smart he'll be direct about it; none of this hinting or surprise stuff. It's too big a decision to play games with. Link to post Share on other sites
teenysquirrel Posted November 13, 2005 Share Posted November 13, 2005 How about you? do you want to be married to him? for me, after 4 yrs of being together(2 yrs of living together), he proposed to me. This is the guy when we met, he point blank told me he didn't believe in marriage, but now he feels differently. And at the time, I was also not looking to get married. All i know is that there is no guarantees. Future can be ever so mysterious. But it is annoying to me what your boyfriend said. Either one proposes and have a long engagement or don't say it at all. To me, it's leading you on. One can't assume and guess about marriage this way. whiy don't you talk about this with him? Link to post Share on other sites
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