Meta Posted July 27, 1999 Share Posted July 27, 1999 Bert, the friend I have developed feelings for, seems to be acting like a "man" now. Probably I'm becoming paranoid because I view him in a different way, but it's becoming difficult for me to stand. I can't wait for him to call and I think about him all day. He used to be very prompt at calling me back but now he doesn't call even when he says he will. I know this is a classic symptom of a man acting like he's not interested in me, but Bert and I have a friendship that I thought was built on a strong foundation. If he sensed something and is acting distant, I don't see the point of maintaining friendhship with him. I fear that he will reject me like a "guy" so I feel that I should sustain every contact with him. Am I acting a bit too sensitive, or should I totally stop being friends with him? Link to post Share on other sites
Christie Posted July 28, 1999 Share Posted July 28, 1999 Don't stop being a friend. I guess you can chill out for a while and see how he reacts, but don't ever stop being a friend to him. If you care about him that much, why give up? Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Meta Posted July 28, 1999 Share Posted July 28, 1999 I'm so afraid that I will lose him as a friend once he knows my feelings for him. I don't want to take that chance and it's killing me to just stay friends with him at the same time. I feel that if I just retreive from him, everything will be OK and my life will be less confusing...like before I knew him. I don't know...has anybody succeded in becoming lovers after friendship? Link to post Share on other sites
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