MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted November 17, 2005 Share Posted November 17, 2005 Maybe her original question..."Is it abuse?" needs to be answered clearly so she can take action and have the authorities deal with her irresponsible excuse of a mother. A slap across the face is hardly abuse compared to what her mother is allowing these drunken guyz do to her. Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted November 17, 2005 Share Posted November 17, 2005 Maybe her original question..."Is it abuse?" needs to be answered clearly so she can take action and have the authorities deal with her irresponsible excuse of a mother. A slap across the face is hardly abuse compared to what her mother is allowing these drunken guyz do to her. Totally agree with you MWC .. i would be worried about the men getting in my room and the fact she is letting them !! She is a sorry excuse for a mother letting it happen like that !! What kind of example is showing for these girls? Link to post Share on other sites
illusion Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 If a mother hits her kid is it abuse, across the face Im 17 and my mom just hit me and I dont know what to think other than have been crying my eyes out. And my dad doesnt even care about me:'( i understand alot about this one,my mom hit me for the first time when i was 16 yearsold,and the next time when i was 23 just last night.I dont know what to do i do the same thing i cry all the time and my dad always saids well if i was here i would hit you too.Should i talk to them or should i see a councler or maybe its just time for me to move out,HELP Link to post Share on other sites
illusion Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 That's bulls***. So... what if my MOTHER is misbehaving? Does that mean I have the *right* to smack her across the face as well? Is it *okay* for my Dad to hit my mother when he is pissed off at her - or vice versa? See where I'm going with this? Hitting is WRONG. Period. that is so stupid you should never use violence i dont even like it when someone spanks their child.that person who ever wrote that ,that its okay to hit well they probely hit people thats why they are saying it. Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 Pr 13:24 - He who withholds his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him diligently. Pr 29:15 - The rod and reproof give wisdom, But a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother. Pr 22:15 - Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of discipline will remove it far from him. Link to post Share on other sites
Brittanyjean06 Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 everyone has been replying to this post based on their judgment and experience with their own lives, but there not seeing the real picture... you see a 17 year old girl who is trying to talk about her problems...she didnt ask for everyone to get so ARGUMENTIVE over this thread. i think the real problem is here is the drunk guys who keep trying to get in to your room, sounds like your mother slaped you because you tried to stand up for your self. by bringing up these guys your mother brings home, says her reasons for slapping you are not right. UH duh people? Link to post Share on other sites
Brittanyjean06 Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 you can disciplin your child, with out abuse....that is not healthy at all.. a little slap isnt healthy, it scares them not teaches them what happend to the soap in the mouth trick, the time out time, the no tv, no cell phone, now that will really make a child stop lol Link to post Share on other sites
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