Lola (the loser??) Posted July 7, 2001 Share Posted July 7, 2001 OK. For those of you who read my post about the new guy I was dating...well, I haven't heard from him since the 4th (Wed). Embarassing aside: While we were watching the fireworks and kissed on the beach, he suddenly started feeling REALLY sick (bad stomach ache). We hurried back to his place. He was REALLY embarassed about this happening. I walked with him to his apt door and I was going to leave so that he would have some privacy to go to the bathroom. Well, without a word, he hurried in to the bathroom, and I wasn't sure whether to stay or go. I stayed and started reading a book. He came out and said that he wanted to walk me to my car (I told him he didn't have to, but he politely insisted). At my car, he said he'd call me. Well, I haven't heard fom him since. (We've been either talking or emailing each day since we met, so this is a bit different.)I sent him an email the next day to thank him for dinner & that I hoped he was feeling better... Now I am wondering if he's still sick? Or, could he be embarassed to talk to me because of the gastro-intestinal thing? Maybe it's just me?? Maybe he doesn't like me anymore or is not interested??? Should I call him or leave him alone? If I call him, what should I say? (It's not like I'd mention that I hadn't heard from him or anything like that.) Don't worry, I'm not waiting around. Life goes on. I like him, but I'm not in love or anything. We have a lot in common, and enjoy each other's company. But I just want to make sure I'm not being TOO hard on someone I haven't known for very long, but, in that short time, has been pretty cool. Thanks everyone. Link to post Share on other sites
sparkle Posted July 7, 2001 Share Posted July 7, 2001 Hi Lola, Don't be too hard on him yet. Give him a call and keep it short. Just say that you wanted to see how he was doing, and you hope that he's feeling better. And if he is, ask him if he wants to hang out later. And if he does, that's great. If he says he's busy or makes an excuse, or is still sick, tell him to give you a call when he's free. And then let HIM call YOU. Link to post Share on other sites
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