Daniel Posted July 9, 2001 Share Posted July 9, 2001 Hi guys. I have a question for everyone. I'm 23 and for most of my life, I've thought of myself as gay. I have had great girlfriends but I was never sexually aroused by them-only by men. Well, recently that has changed. I have not been attracted to guys AT ALL! Recently I have only been aroused by women. Now, most people would probably say that means I'm bi. But, I don't think so. I'm not attracted to both men and women now-just women. But, that just sounds so odd. I guess it has been a gradual process, but it seems weird that I could be a homosexual and then wake up a heterosexual. It's not a situation where i just haven't met any guys that i'm interested in lately. I have just totally lost attraction-at least in a sexual sense (i still have guy friends) to men. All of a sudden, i'm attracted to women, and have been for months. Has anyone ever heard of anything so crazy before!?! Can a person's sexual orientation just change like that? Thanks for any advice. Dan. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 9, 2001 Share Posted July 9, 2001 YOU ASK: "Can a person's sexual orientation just change like that?" In your case, it seems it has. Congratulations. Women are a lot more fun than men are...if you happen to be a man. Link to post Share on other sites
marzipan75 Posted July 9, 2001 Share Posted July 9, 2001 Well I guess it's possible, definitely possible! It isn't unheard of if that's what you mean. I have a close friend whose girlfriend recommended they do a three-some and the result turned out to be devastating to him because his girlfriend ended up confused after that. She left him to be with a woman for a while and then came back to him ultimately deciding that she was not a lesbian after all. All I can really tell you is maybe you should experiment with just women for a while and see if this isn't a phase maybe or something. I don't recommend doing this with a close girlfriend or getting into a serious relationship right now because the result could be devastating to the other person involved. I know, how do you experiment without having sex and without getting serious? I dunno but be safe whatever you do! I'd say it does mean you are bi and if so then there's a lot of people that are bi out there to experiment with who can even help you deal with this. Whatever it is embrace it cause you deserve to be happy. I hope this helps. Hi guys. I have a question for everyone. I'm 23 and for most of my life, I've thought of myself as gay. I have had great girlfriends but I was never sexually aroused by them-only by men. Well, recently that has changed. I have not been attracted to guys AT ALL! Recently I have only been aroused by women. Now, most people would probably say that means I'm bi. But, I don't think so. I'm not attracted to both men and women now-just women. But, that just sounds so odd. I guess it has been a gradual process, but it seems weird that I could be a homosexual and then wake up a heterosexual. It's not a situation where i just haven't met any guys that i'm interested in lately. I have just totally lost attraction-at least in a sexual sense (i still have guy friends) to men. All of a sudden, i'm attracted to women, and have been for months. Has anyone ever heard of anything so crazy before!?! Can a person's sexual orientation just change like that? Thanks for any advice. Dan. Link to post Share on other sites
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