vixen123 Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 sophia, read my thread under vixen123 and my title is "Help!!!! I only have 2 weeks". My story is similiar to yours in some ways but diff. in others...if you wait like I did and start planning, wasting $5000 or more on wedding stuff, you're practicly digging a whole to your own grave and can't get out. He will DESPISE you if you wait that long !!! Mine did. Nasty things were said, but one day I held my breath and called him, telling him and crying uncontrollably but tell him now!! My ex-fiance still loves me as I do him and I still don't know if he's the one but I took time out of contact w/ him to think for 2 weeks...I don't know what being in love should feel like because I analyze too much...I'd like to know how to will myself too to fall in love... Link to post Share on other sites
Topeka Posted December 23, 2005 Share Posted December 23, 2005 only in my case, I'm the male age 31 and the woman is 32. we already broke up 6 months ago. every day i dwell on what happened and what the right decision is. she wants to get married and i don't blame her. we dated for almost four years on and off. every day i wonder whether i am making the biggest mistake of my life and overlooking what a good thing i have and focusing on superficial things OR all of this ambivalence about marriage and taking so long to make up my mind is a sign that we weren't meant to be. of course being single makes it more confusing, because i wonder whether i'll ever be close to someone again. Link to post Share on other sites
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