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Ok I been friends with this girl for almost 9 years now, We have had love & hate friendships an that was going on for 6 years ..

 

This is whats the problem (List):

 

1. She wants to date me but she can't until she is 18 though she said she would go out with me..

 

2. Her parents well (mother) hate me for reasons I have no clue why & They are strict on who an where there daughter gose out with , So in other meanings they are very protective which isn't a bad thing.

 

3. This girl & I have a 50/50 past history with eachother.

 

4. I know for a fact that she has something she wants to say to me but she just can't let it out.

 

5. I do have feelings for her though I have gave her so many chances an not yet one of them worked out. Im not sure it would work out again seeing that 2 years ago we went out for only 18hrs 25mins 38 secs (Yes I timed it) then she dumped me cause she was afraid I guess.

 

6. I somewhat believe that she still loves me but like I said shes holding back.

 

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She said to me in a chain letter:

 

Me: If there was one thing you can give to me anything what would it be?

Her: My heart

 

Now Idk Im still thinking, Idk if she has mixed emotions or not.. I say to my self that If she really wanted to go out with me then why would she want to wait 2 months until her Bday to date?...

 

I think we were ment for eachother cause every other girl I been with was nothing compared to her.

 

What do you guys/girls think should I wait it out for another 2months an see what happens or just drop it?

 

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I think we were ment for eachother cause every other girl I been with was nothing compared to her.

That is what people always think. Does not make it true. And if you describe the friendship already as love & hate, going on for 6 years, I see little reason to assume that the relationship would be healthy anyway.

 

I would say forget it.

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I do have to say that was in the past... as her an I put things in the past..

 

I just want to know if it's worth giving a shot at it..

 

Also seeing that Im a droppy from high school an was layed off of work I only meet women online an they live far far far away from my area..

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