Emzy Posted November 18, 2005 Share Posted November 18, 2005 ok well..... i just recently split up (well i think we did) with my bf after 5 months, and it was going perfectly till he told me he has feelings for guys (although def not gay)????? and has felt like this since he was 16 (we are both 21 now). I was totally shocked and he said he didnt want things to change.... but was just gonna need more space. So i didnt contact him to 2 days, till he text me asking me to go round. He took off his top and put my arm on him, and started to get really close as if nothin had changed..... he also texts me all the time, and we went out again 2ogether last night...... now is it me or am i really confused? Does he just want to be friends or does he want to get back to how things were, as he hasnt mentioned anything about his feelings for guys since! plz plz help, and im too scrared to ask him ne thin in case he takes it the wrong way (and i cant get over him, and would do anything to go back to how things were) as he obviously still had feelings for guys when he was with me, but he didnt want to tell me- but i dont know if i would feel comftable with it? hmmmm what do i do Link to post Share on other sites
Lonestar Posted November 18, 2005 Share Posted November 18, 2005 If your ex is admitting he has feelings for men then eventually he will act on them. At this point he might be too scared and is using your for sex and comfort. You need to set this guy free to figure out who he is, what he wants, and what his sexuality is. If you stick around, you'll get very hurt in the process, because I highly doubt these feelings of his will go away. Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah12385 Posted November 18, 2005 Share Posted November 18, 2005 When I was 17, I dated a guy who ended up cheating on me - with another man. Your guy might be trying to block any guy-with-guy fantasies he's been having by being initmate with you, if that's what he's doing. Or, it could've been a phase, who knows. Whatever the case may be, just try to be as open as him with your feelings as you can so that he knows where you stand & how you feel, you don't wanna put yourself in a position where heartbreak can come crashing down on you ~Sarah~ Link to post Share on other sites
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