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[spikey]

Hi there,

 

A guy whom I have been corresponding with both via email (and we use to see eachother) recently told me that he is seeing someone in Scotland; which is very far from here. I was becomming quite interested in seeing him again and suddenly he drops the bomb. But, this is where I'm confused, his email said, "I am seeing someone right now, and although she'd never know, I can't to it. I hope we can still email eachother though."

 

So, after reading this I was thinking, well, I can't try and get together with him anymore, but his email had a double meaning, I thought.

 

When he wrote, "although she'ed never know" it just seemed strange. And plus, he still wants to correspond with me, knowing that I am interested in him. Should I still email him? Do I still have a change with him? What do you think?

[Tony T]

1. "Should I still email him?"

 

For what purpose? You are interested in him and he has a girlfriend. I think you should butt out of his life, for your own good.

 

2. "Do I still have a change with him?"

 

Why would you want a chance with him? He lives far away and you need someone there with you...someone who will make you number one.

 

3. "What do you think?"

 

I think he wants to continue Emailing you because he knows you like him and he wants to keep you in reserve. You would be great for him to talk to in between relationships.

 

I really don't think you want something like that. Forget this guy.

[spikey]

Tony,

 

I appreciate your responce, but you misunderstood my situation. He does not live in England, this girl does. He lives like three minutes from my house. I just thought, "what kind of relationship can he have with this girl if she's at the other end of the world." But, that's not for me to decide. I will butt out as I said I would, I guess I was just looking to get my kicks.